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Am I the abusive one? *Trigger Warning*

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To introduce the situation, there are a few matters I deem significant. For one, my partner and I are expecting. I am 2 months and 3 weeks pregnant. In the past, I left my partner two years ago after leaving my home senior year and trying to live with his family. It was an ordeal daily, to say the least. I did ...
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Can abusers really change?

Hello everyone. I’m posting this because In the past I’ve been a victim of domestic violence. I was ina long term relationship for a very long time that started when I was in highschool. In the beginning of it there was a lot of verbal abuse from my girlfriend at the time. Eventually it escalated into physical years later. The first incidents involved being kicked in the groin and pushed onto the floor. After these ...
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Fighting and he hit me

Last night me and my boyfriend got into a not serious argument. He was eating and then he passed me the dirty dish to deal with which I was really sick of always having this happen, as I don't really want to clean up after him all the time and I've said this multiple times. I ended up hitting him on the foot with the dish (we were sitting on a couch) and saying that ...
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I keep physically abusing my boyfriend- HELP!

I have been with my boyfriend for about 6-7 months now. Starting at about our 4th month together, I started to get physical with him when we would get into arguments., he knows how to push my buttons really well, I just kind of let him get the best of me. I'm very angry at myself, for my behavior, but recently I've been beginning to feel a lot of resentment towards him for some reason. ...
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Memories of abuse keeps coming back?

Hi,

Years ago I was in a abusive relationship.

I should have seen the danger on the first time we spent time together. He was my first everything. I was with him, he wanted to proceed. I said no, he kept trying but ended up just coming between my thighs.The day after we slept together, it was my first time, but he got mad afterwards and ignored me because he thought i wasn’t virgin. I ...
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Abusive relationship at a new low level

My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 yrs. We have been engaged then broken up. I have broken up with him a second time due to his emotional/verbal abuse turned violent. Fast forward a month or two. He gets help on his own with counseling and I, myself had already done the same. I slowly let him back into my life and my house. That happened a year ago. While things had not ...
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Disabled, abused and scared

A few months ago, I tried calling a helpline. I ended up hanging up before anyone answered and my hands shook for four hours after. This is my second attempt at reaching out and my heart is pounding like a fierce thing.
Where to even start? 16 years worth of abuse. Physical, emotional, financial - you name it, I've endured it. Something happened one day and I asked myself; is this abuse? So I started ...
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Can't tell if he's manipulating me, or I'm just crazy.

Hi everyone.
I have been with my husband for 13 years. We have had a great relationship until around 2 years ago when things started going down hill. My husband was diagnosed with cluster B personality disorder a few months ago. He also has a history of childhood sexual abuse and has PTSD as a result. I feel I should mention here that I also have a history of childhood trauma including sexual abuse, and ...
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Father Married to Prostitute

So recently my father found out his wife is working as a prostitute behind his back. He is 50 and she is around 30 years old. Initially when he learned of her activities he kept it hidden so that the police could catch her. That way he could get a much more favorable divorce. He waited a few months but nothing happened. So he decided to divorce her. Now before doing that, he brought a ...
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Heartbroken!

I loved my bf with all my heart, we were together 2.5 years... he and I started as friends and eventually became a couple after couple more months. He talked about just us being together rest of our lives. After a while though he became verbally and emotionally abusive, after about ten months he hit me for the first time. I was shocked and grief stricken and confused. Some time past without incident and then ...
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