News of Bullying Forum

I feel I can and should tell my story here.

I dealt with bullying all through my Primary School years, from the ages of 5 until 12. As a result, I have a warped sense of men.

I will just mention some of the things...

I was known as the fat, ugly kid. Though I was the joker early on, that soon changed. I was not popular. I was teased for being different. Somewhat of ...

well,i have alot of things going on in my life for example work,school
and family matters,Sometimes if i'm in a large group i don't know what to say because i don't feel comfortable but i see the other talking and i say to my self what should i do or say know but nothing comes out.Now in my work environment some new people are coming to work with me and thier not the kind of ...

I need some help.
Because people are always telling me to stand up to people who hate me..
Well i have done in the past and it was for the worse.
people always say well stand up to these people.
I do right now and people are always coming back at me *why*
i can't win i just can not seem to win because i am all alone by my self.
So how do i ...

So I know this couple (family friends, if you can call them friends) and I don't like them. In fact, I am so upset with the way they talk to me that I want to completely ignore them, but I'm afraid this would make me look like a bad person in front of others. Let me explain this in more detail. Those two family friends think that they are superior to anyone, amd when they ...

why does bullying effect some people's anxieties :?:

Hi all,
I have not visited these forums for many months, but happened to find my way here today. After reading a few of the bully threads here I thought that an assertiveness lesson might be helpful to some. Sadly I, myself, was completely unaware of the concept of Assertiveness until about a year ago, and suspect the same possibility with some of you. And while i'm certainly far from being a master at it ...

For 7 years I had to stand bullying at school and for month at work. I think that happened because I was too unsure because of everything I had to go through in my childhood. :(
Since the bullying I have been lacking in self- confidence much more then before up to now. I´m too anxious not too be accepted of the people. And there are more ...

I went to a small primary school called uplawmoor primary it had like 75 pupils through out and my year had 8 peole including me. I was bullied from primary 1 to primary 7 for being so quiet and unsure about everything. I was bullied by 2 gurls in my year and the rest just sat back and let it happen i used to run out of class in tears and the teacher wouldnt do ...

Bullying sucks, there are 2 ways to avoid it

1)Prevent it from happening

This can be accomplished by completely altering your life and avoiding contact with people you may think might to bully you. ALso, you can get cosmetic surgery and fix whatever malformity you have that makes you a target, or you can change whatever it is about yourself that makes other people so angry

2) Nip it in the Bud

When a bully ...

Hey,

My best-friend and i have known each other for nearly 12 years now but there is a problem...

He is bullied and has been continuously bullied for as long as I can remember, and it is this angry energy that he bullies me with, he even does it when nothing has happenned.

As a result I now have low self-esteem and a low confidence in myself despite knowing deep down that i am just ...