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I have major major abandonment issues - the more I care about the person, the more serious it is and the more I unintentionally drive them away with my unrealistic emotional reactions and my smothering.

Does anyone have any idea at all on how to control these crazy fears so that I don't lose those I love?

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Thank you.

Why does Bordelines seem to like Histronics.

Doesn't they realise they are just going be betrayed and burned?

Histronics look for attention and have no real empathy instead they dramatize.
They just produce extrovert expressions of feelings that just exist as expressions, they don't have any introvert feelings and they don't have any intersubjective feelings for you(they don't have deep map of your emotions).

It seems to me that histronics just exploit bordelines and only ...

I think I might have BPD, here are my issues, I have obsessive compulsive disorder ( was diagnosised in 2005) but after looking up the symptoms of BPD, I realized I might have it. This isnt a obsession, trust me. But I get bouts of anger, Like today, I got so angery at my brother when he took me to the dmv, and said he didnt want to wait because it was pakced, it was ...

Hello.

I read a few posts here and they are very interesting. This may not be interesting for you, but I thought I'd write a little about me and how I experience this strange world... First of all, I have not been diagnosed with BPD. But my medical doctor called me up about a year ago and said he had thought about what could be wrong with me. He said Asperger's Syndrome. I said Asp-what? ...

First let me explain, My ex and i were together for about a year, a good year with no problems, then one day it all chanced. He graduated college and wanted to move, we made plans to move, but then he continually dumped me, I would find things on his computer that would suggest he was talking to other people in this palce we were suppose to move. So we fought for a good 4 ...

is anyone still awake and up for talking? i'm extremely lonely and it would be really nice to have someone to talk to.

so i saw on my myspace that i share with my boyfriend that he had publicly posted baby/lovey dovey talk for me in a blog entry. it irritated me and i deleted it. i told him i didn't like it and that it is embarrassing to talk that way for everyone to see. so he got quiet (was talking with him online) and that pissed me off immediately. i told him to talk,talk,talk. he typed ...

I am new here. I have been dating my girlfriend for about 6 months now. We have known each other for about 2 1/2 - 3 years now. She was recently diagnosed with BPD. I was just wondering if there is something I can do to help her? She is seeing her therapist and going to group sessions, and I encourage her to go when she starts to complain about having to go to group. ...

My ex and I have been off and on for many years. We recently started making headway. She has BPD and has always abandoned me. I love her to my soul. I always have and always will. No matter how many times she has left me.
Well, things started getting a little shakey and crazy, and I ended it forseeing a repeat of abandonment.
I knew my mind was mush and emotionally in turmoil.
It ...

I have been diagnosed as Borderline for several years now. I was wondering if anyone has had success with any medications? Personally, I have been on some type of med or another since I was 14, and the ONLY thing that ever made a significant difference was Abilify.

I was put on Abilify last summer and have since gained approximately 30 pounds. My blood pressure has risen, and since I have pre-hypertension, my PCP told ...