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I have successfully destroyed every relationship that has ever meant anything to me. I need help and I don't know how to find it. I've tried different medications but none seem to work. I've tried different therapists but none offer permanent changes or relief, just talk therapy. It helps to vent while I'm in therapy, but it doesn't help me control my emotions. I've destroyed my relationship with my daughter. She's afraid of me because ...

So, after my family having a collective meltdown this week, including my little brother basically trying to put me in a headlock today, I realized that everything I've been feeling lately has been matched by their moods individually and I'm wondering if this is something any of you have experienced - and if the cause and effect is flipped. Basically, am I just working as an antenna for my household's moods or am I projecting ...

I've been hanging out in the NPD forum because I score high on NPD tests I've taken. With the exception of lack of empathy and inability to feel love--which is an aspect of NPD I don't identify with. It was suggested that I think about BPD. I'm obviously not diagnosed. I've seen a great licensed social worker family therapist on and off for a couple of years and while she's helpful, she's not into the ...

Hello, all... I have just recently been confronted with the fact that I have BPD. In many ways I am glad that I can finally put a name to the inner turmoil but in other ways I am TERRIFIED.

I am going through the end of my second marriage, brought about because of the horrible way that I treated her. I was on a rollercoaster from hell... fluctuating between absolute adoration and vicious acts. I ...

Hello :) I don't know if anything I say will be a trigger because I'm new to learning about BPD!

I'm new to the forums, though I've browsed them before. I came to ask a few questions on how to be a good and supportive friend to someone with BPD. My mother is bipolar and on disability after a full mental breakdown about five years ago, so ...

I have BPD. I have had it for several years and I understand a lot about it although I am learning more everytime I 'go mad'.

This time around, an incident occured at my place of Employment. I complained about an Employee to my Manager. They told me they would be able to do something if I made a formal complaint that they would move me to a different site. I made the formal complaint ...

Hi, I'm new to this forum, so apologise for not reading any posts yet.

I am also new at learning about borderline personality disorder and have a friend with it.

I would like to ask for advice from those with the condition, how I might best be a friend to those with the disorder? What I should do, when I struggle with coping with some of the characteristics? What I should do when the disorder ...

How do your loved ones make you feel valued and respected? What do they do to make you feel that?

has anyone ever felt so sad that they thought they were going to die?
i've been so irritable. so angry tonight. maybe i just haven't gotten what i want, so i'm having a hissy fit.
what i wanted was my therapist to hold me, to give me a hug at least. monday she cried along with me because my mom's dying.
she just kept saying how sad it is, agreeing that it's all fxxxed up. ...

Soooo... Im going to lose it and go on a murderous rampage here soon if something doesn't change. I am bored out of my mind and I've been single all year; its getting hard to hold this $#%^ in anymore and keep up the happy mask. I need a hug.