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BPD with BPD mother... How to end our relationship?

I have BPD, STRONGLY convinced my mother has it too,

- Spends loads of money, gets into debt
- Sleeps around
- Can be a complete and utter b*tch one minute and sweet as f*cking sugar the next
- So so manipulative, twists f*cking everything to make her look like the good guy.

etc etc.

Basically she has done a lot of extremely EXTREMELY unforgivable things and I honestly, genuinely, 100% hate her. I am ...
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Medication change & feeling terrible

3 Days i stopped taking Setraline & went back on Mirtazipine! I have been on it before but stopped taking meds about 12 months ago as i put on loads of weight with it but tried other stuff after no change have decided to go back on mirtazipine but day 3 into stopping Sertraline & Starting mirtazipine i feel so terrible.. Shakes, Headaches, Temperature, Very emotional (asif im not emotional enough anyway) and just feel ...
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How can I control my mood swings?

From time to time, I have really strong mood swings that happen because of something really, really minor that makes me feel unloved or unworthy. The way my boyfriend deals with it is explaining that he does not have time for it, that he will gladly hear me out when we talk like adults but not with "temper tantrums", as he calls it. At that moment he reminds me that he loves me and that ...
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BPD- Profile and Process of Therapy

I wanted to share an artilce with you today. My therapist told me to read it and I found it very helpful. The link is at the end of this post. I found it helpful because there are many examples of how the disorder plays out in real life.

Another thing I was told and found interesting is that the highest population of people with BPD exist in people who have been put up for ...
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I want to say that for the record...

I having been having a great few days..

I have a great counselor. Probably the best I have ever had. She doesnt even care about my diagnoses. She looks at me like a person and has allowed me to see what I have accomplished.

She is also helping me through my grief. Apparently I am squashing down feelings. My homework is to verbally say my emotions outloud as I am feeling them about my mom. ...
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Where am I? Help me!

I just dont know where I want to be anymore, does this make sense to anyone? My psych says to make a list of all the things I dont want, but I dont know what I do and dont want anymore. Im suffereing from severe pressure and anxiety lately from stress and I just.. I just dont know. No where on this planet is appealing, I want to live near family but I need my ...
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How do you take life changing decisions when you're BPD?

Hi all,
I'm new my name is Silla and I'm 29. I was diagnosed with BPD this year, although I thought all my life that was bipolar, but it's been a fantastic journey to understand all those things about me that I disliked and how they're not all my fault!

After lots of therapy, I have improved several areas of my life, but there is one thing I just can't seem to get over : ...
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Showing a BPD girl that you care...

Hey guys I'm in a bit of a situation. One month ago I began seeing a girl officially diagnosed with BPD. I have BPD also but with the help of medication and extensive DBT I have most of it under control.

One night when we were out she told me her life story. She's been raped many times and has cut and burn scars all over her body. Despite all of that she's a great ...
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Therapist

The therapist says that I have the tendencies of Borderline but not the acutal disorder.
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Just Diagnosed After 4 Months Therapy

Been going to therapy for like 4 months (originally CBT, but, now DBT..I guess, they always say multi-modal, etc.). I was getting angry, because, I didn't feel like there was a plan. I'm an engineer - we plan lol. So, I told my doctor, come up with a plan or I'm out. Wasn't bluffing, I figured just go find someone else.

Came in, and, she had a printed piece of paper with four lines on ...
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