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So recently I cut off a toxic family member, because I feel like whenever I go to them about a problem they’re not very warm or assuring, in fact they are very judgmental and cold. One specific incident that happened was that I was feeling very alone and went on a Facebook rant about how I feel as though no one in my life truly cares about me and just uses me or treats me ...

Hello psych forums... it’s been a while since I have posted on here last. My life has been pretty much a complete $#%^ sandwich since then especially the last week... let me enlighten you on what I am talking about.

Ok, so I recently decided that I would get tested for STD’s after having unprotected sex with another guy. Yes, I know that it was very dumb on my part to do this and I ...

Recently been diagnosed with both disorders and can’t find much info online regarding the comorbidity. I suffer from the fear of abandonment, unstable self image, black and white thinking, splitting, self harm, depression and anxiety from Bpd and lack of empathy, lack of remorse and guilt, lust for violence, manipulation, explosive anger and superficial charm to name a few of my Anti-social traits. Wondering in general about people’s lives on here who’ve had the same ...

I have been seeing a guy for over a month and we have met up 3 times a week for lunch, dinner, drinks and we even spent couple days during the weekend together as well.
we went to a theme park and it was hell lot of fun
we also went to have drinks quite a few times

we didn't hug/ didn't kiss, didn't hold hands or anything
but we had a lot of laughters ...

I feel trapped. In this family, bound by our secrets that no one can ever know. By this body and my distorted perceptions of it. By time constantly running away never pausing for me to catch up.

I just want to be free from everything.

My BPD basically encouraged me to trash and ruin the best relationship I ever had in my life.
I'd like to talk about how to " move on" . I'm still in love with them, and wish someday we could get back together (we have remained friends), they have fallen out of love with me, but still love and care for me as a friend. I have waves of total meltdowns about the fact I ...

I was just wondering if one could still be diagnosed as borderline without having the "key" symptom, that is having intense and unstable relationships. Can you have bpd but not get into relationships at all? And instead of acting obsessive, being more closed off?

Because I recognise myself in nearly all the other symptoms.
- I have weird mood swings and periods of extreme sadness and instability
- I'm impulsive (drinking, unprotected hookups, skipping classes, ...

I think I am still very upset at my dad
I wish that he can care about me for real
I wish that he would have showed that he cares about me when he saw me hitting my head on the closet (accidentally)
I wish that he would have lended his passport to the custom when they figured out that I bought some meat item across the border.. I remember when he hesitated, brought the ...

Anyone have advice on how to cope when your FP goes NC? Yeah, I screwed up AGAIN. I'm just trying to maintain some sense of decorum, but it is difficult. Any advice would be appreciated.

Hello—I am a student who is currently considering going to grad school in order to study psychology (specifically, with the goal of studying BPD). I am very interested in learning more about this condition and am hoping that someone can help shed some light on a few questions I have. Most of all, I’m interested in learning more about the concept of the “inner child” that many individuals with BPD often mention. If anyone can ...