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Just wondering whether anyone can shed some light on this topic.

Intense fear of abandonment and aloneness is often cited as a characteristic of someone with BPD.
I am in the end game of disentangling myself after 18 months from what has become clear was a relationship with someone with a high proportion of the behavioural characteristics of BPD.
I am trying to work out like so many others on these forums regarding the particular ...

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Have any of you read I hate you... don't leave me? What did you think of it?

Any other books you'd recommend?

Two part problem, here.... nicely broken up for easy reading.

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My best friend... left her husband in a Texas prison for child pornography. Props to her and all but when the Feds couldn't hold him the guards had his ass beat by some inmates... in the ER they ran a CAT scan for concussions and found a giant tumor that supposedly accounts for his mood swings and urge to beat his wife... Then the ...

My only life goal, since my spirituality left me, has been to live to see 2012. I don't know if that makes me delusional or not. I believe in my heart, something good will happen on 2012, a new age, and i want to see it, thus it would be a shame to die before that. If it turns out to be the end of the world, i am still excited to see it. I ...

I have been married for almost 19 years. I recently discovered my wife has BPD, or the symptoms of it anyway. Needless to say, I have literally gone through hell in all these years. We have never had an intimate romantic relationship, because of her - not me. I have literally been beaten and called horrible names several times and it still continues. She never takes full responsibility for her actions. She knows she does ...

I've been doing some research lately on the topic of bonding and attachment issues, and it seems to me that BPD and other disorders are obviously caused by lack of bonding with a primary caregiver. For example, if you bond securely with your primary caregiver, you will feel secure and attached in childhood and adult relationships. If you didn't bond securely with your primary caregiver, the opposite happens - you don't tend to bond and ...

hi again everyone, i ve not posted for sometime as i ve had a lot of ups and downs and twists and turns for the last few months, my partner (or ex) has changed every day for months now. its helped me to distance myself even though its been tough with all the hurtful things he has said.
he was diagnosed NPD 3 years ago but we ve found now that some of his issues ...

hi all just wanted to inroduce myself, im rob from england, i have Borderline personality disorder, dissocial personality disorder, obsessive compulsive disorder and bipolar disorder lol long list i know :?

Hi everyone, I'm MissyBoo and I'm new here. I have had BPD for 5 years. I have been involuntarily hospitalized on a secure ward for 2 and a half years. Borderline has nearly killed me numerous times. Its been a long, long road, but I wanted you all to know recovery IS possible. I used to severely self harm every single day, sometimes more than once a day. I spent 8 months on constant observations ...