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Schema therapy (lifetraps): the traps and how to spot them

This is following on from "cluster" traits thread and is taken from the book "Reinventing your Life. The breakthrough program to end negative behavior and feel great again" by Jeffrey E. Young and Janet S. Klosko. If I went purely by title, this book would never have been opened, but my therapist has lent me it and it's the stuff we're trying to work on this year.

If you're experiencing a low/crisis mood at the ...
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Well hello.

This got misunderstood...
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Being engaged shouldn't be so... blah!

*mod edit*

I was soooo happy to get the ring. I'm excited... but at the same time I suddenly am freaking out again. :( I want to climb in be and cry. I don't know what to do... if I'm ready... if I'm ready to commit to one person. The thing is, I've wanted this! I love the man... but I still pine over my ex occasionally. ...
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sabbotage relationships

I keep meeting really nice guys but keep messing it up. I get a small red flag, then i sabbotage, then they hate me. Keeps happening and im afraid it will happen forever. I feel so ashamed and worthless.
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Why do borderlines tell lies?

My daughter had a very bad asthma attack last week and was admitted to Intensive Care.... before they transferred her to ITU, they asked her if they should contact me... She told them that we hadn't spoken for months, that she no longer lives with me and lives with her boyfriend in a pub !!! :o I only learned that she was intensive care when I visited ...
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BPD songs?

Do any of you enjoy listening to songs that relate to your troubles from the disorder?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lLxvp2Ct9x0 this one describes how I feel so good it's as if the singer knew exactly what he is talking about


I tried and left, they came and went
I got rejected out again
But no one believes me
I've worn a hundred faces
Of the character replacements and now
Nobody sees me ...
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Desperate for help, can't go on

I have been resisting putting my problems on here, but I dont know what to do anymore. I have known that I am borderline for several years but always tried to hide it as the perception of BPD is quite frankly horrifying to me.

I have now been in serious crisis since autumn last year. I have been hospitalised, have been involved with crisis team twice (currently on their books again) I am constantly on ...
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Dx of BPD to a BPD is Irresponsible

ALL I can think about since my Dx is BPD, all day everyday. I can't help but not read about it, think about it.

There should seriously be a better way for a pDoc to dx a patient with BPD instead of just labelling them as BPD. BPD have OCD to the max, not to mention all the other PDs. I just can't help but rage about this.

I always knew I had "issues" but ...
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EDIT: N/M

Please delete this thread. It was never meant to be offensive, it was just an honest question out of concern.
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My stupid story *anger trigger warning*

Hello there,I am new to this forum.I have cluster B PD traits,mostly borderline.I really need to share in a ''short'' story my last 4 years and I think the people in this forum are the only ones capable of understanding this,as the events i want to share would probably mean nothing to a non-borderline.It would probably be boring for most of you,but I advice that there might be things that will enrage you in my ...
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