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Well.. i was with my ex now for over 2 years, we split up in September this year. We have been through lot together, i helped him get a diagnosis of BDP, get supportive housing, we both got into bad drug habits together + came off it together, and overall understood each other well + got along well. I have inattentive ADD, anxiety + Depression so even though it isn't as serious as BDP at ...

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I need some help and opinions as I have a pretty big problem. I was diagnosed with BPD and depression 8 years ago and since have been in therapy with the same therapist (except for the first month I had another therapist) and taking medication every day (not the same drugs all the years but some are). I had severe anorexia and bulimia, self-harmed since childhood, suicidal thoughts and urges, but, except for the ...

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Yesterday I had to drop off some of my work at a client's house. I was buzzed in and they were delighted. I set up my credit card machine and the husband paid the balance after having a Vodka drink. We chat some more, all very friendly, until suddenly he turns. I mean literally from one second to another he was outraged that I hadn't supplied something that I never promised, I don't ...

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I am "in love" with a mentor, he's a great guy and knows how I feel, he's been really supportive. I have recently gone back to DBT to work this and other things through.

In the meantime, I have googled his wife, just to see a photo of her, to see if she's prettier than me.
Could not find a photo, thank God. But I do know she is in an administrative position which ...

I fall for NPDs. It's a pattern. I am beginning to realize now that if I have strong feelings for someone, usually that person is N.

Anyone else here find themselves in this situation?

It's like the only people that really turn me on emotionally are the very people that will hurt me the most.

It's a struggle to love someone who is (1) not playing push-and-pull with me; (2) not ignoring me and then ...

I'm getting a ######6 headache over this. And I'm sorry for posting so many threads, I don't know where else to go ._.

I actually live by myself right now, just me and my animals, because I like being able to control who I see, and who sees me. When I need someone I go over to THEIR place. I don't know why but I get so...agitated and angry and mean whenever someone comes to ...

I'm 22, I've been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder for about 2 years or more, but I've been living with it for much longer.

There's a person that I've hated with all of my soul for such a long time, to the point that I cut off all contact with her. I don't know if it's just the distance from her, that I haven't had to deal with any of her bull lately, or an ...

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I'm seething. Over something that hasn't even happened. I find I can imagine a scenario and work myself up about it so much that it feels completely real. What am I angry about? Well, truth is, my car has broken down, and my laptop on the same day. So, fine, it happens. Anyway, I'm seething about parking tickets (which i haven't gotten today but i'm still angry about), living in a busy city where I ...

Hello every one.
i have been going through a really difficult time. My husband of only 2 months has asked for a divorce. we went out for three and a half years before he proposed to me on June 5th. we were planning the wedding and decided to get married on 9/28 of this year because that was going to be our wedding date for next year. i had started a new job and he ...