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Ive had a rough couple of days..

My BF and I broke up and it lead to a whole bunch of realizations about myself which I refer not to go into but I have went out on a few dates and have attracted the same exact guys so I like Im done..I know I have to push through that youre going to hurt me phase but how can i even do that when I cant ...

Just been through a horrible break up been friends the last 3 months because im going through a hard time but still always think we're going to get back together even though she has no feelings what so ever in that way. So now decided its best to break all contact with her. Has anyone got tips to make it feel easier she was the only person I can talk to about anything feel so ...

This question is for those currently in, or who have completed DBT therapy, but feedback from those not in DBT is totally welcome too :)
Have you ever found People Pleasing Behavior to be a problem for you? Have you ever found yourself doing/saying something you don't want too, or going along with others whether you actually agree or not? Has this behavior ever caused you quality ...

Hi all,
I've been seeing a guy (a gent by all means) for only four months now....I've remained single for the guts of 10 years because of my emotional mess...I only discovered in the last couple of weeks that it's BPD and not depression. As a single person I was doing fairly well apart from anger. But this guy attracted me for some reason or another. Thing is, I think my biggest attraction to him ...

That's the reality of it. I don't know why I am still trying to fit in with other people. I just moved into the dorms at my college, it has only been two weeks and one of my new roommates made that comment to me, jokingly (I think), but it felt like she may as well have slapped me across the face when she said that. The truth of the matter is, I don't have ...

.. the question you asked me ( when you locked my previous post ).
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Your question was : What am I struggling with ?
My answer is : I am desperate for a painkiller. I am my own pain.
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Does it make sense ?
Anything that comes my way, I end up turnig it against myself, and it hurts. I said : Anything ! I don't experience any other kind of feelings besides ...

Hey guys,

We currently have a new chat site up and running for members to come and talk to each other about problems they're facing, or just general chit chat if you're feeling a bit lonely and want to connect to others. The chat site is run by a bunch of us here on PF, and has a different chat room for each PD. You only need an email address and a username to sign ...

I believe people with borderline should be granted the right terminate their lives ( I mean : Assisted suicide, like Dignitas provides in Switzerland ).
What do you think ?
http://www.swissinfo.ch/eng/swiss_news/ ... d=29585264

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If you do. Don't worry about the future, I will never post again.... Just relax and no need to attack. thanks.

Hey Everyone!

It's not long ago since i registered me inhere, so many people doesn't know me maybe and also don't know really much about my past.

For short to explain important things to know:
I filed for divorce 2005 and thru this past marriage comes our child. He was to that time 3.5 Years old.
Now years later today he is 10 years old and i didn't and couldn't see him for years, because ...

I've noticed over the past couple of sessions that T has started to frequently tell me that I am "real" when I get really upset about something. I know I need to just ask her why she says this, but I always forget to ask when I am with her. Why is it important for her to tell me this? :?

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