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I'm not really sure which of the issues in the thread title, if any, the thoughts and behaviours I'm talking about come under. Maybe it could be classed as a touch of all of them. I never really gave them much thought until today, when I realised that certain worries have come up almost every day for months now.

It started when one day I accidentally left my phone at work. It has some personal ...

Hello everyone,

I'm a 21 year old woman who's always had emotional problems, but it wasn't until I learned more about BPD that everything finally started to make sense.

My family regularly tells me I have "problems dealing with adversity." What they mean is that the second something goes mildly wrong I flip out. A good example of this was when I went to the DMV to get new tags (someone had stolen my license ...

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My life has turned into one giant mess. In past year and a bit my moderate social anxiety and isolation has evolved to the point where my life has become completely unmanageable. I'm gay and I grew up in a small town, and last year I moved to a bigger city. I was okay for a while, because it was exciting- But then more of my attempted friendships failed, so in turn I just completely ...

Haha ok I know this sounds really weird but I was wondering if anyone else get this,
If someone doesnt answer a call- or even if I call downstairs to a sibling and they dont respond
I suddenly get really ridiculous ideas that they have been kidnapped or they've passed out or they're in some danger or trouble and I rush down stairs anxiously to see if they are OK,
They are always perfectly fine ...

Lately I've become very avoidant in my behaviour,
I have been refraining from any social interactions for a few months now, aside from going to college which is becoming alot harder for me and I've missed days than I've been in.

I havent concentrated on my studies and Im doing very poor in school because I dont want to leave my house and have to be around people and turn on my "social switch"
I ...

I don't know why I'm posting, I just don't have anyone to talk to. And I feel like my life is over. I want to give up.

This morning I realized that my marriage is probably over... I just don't know how to do it anymore. It's too hard, it's too lonely.

I started seeing someone else a couple months ago... now that's over too.

My husband hung up on me this morning... over a ...

Hello, I'm not sure if this is the right place to post but I thought rather here than somewhere that may get me banned or offend someone.

I think I may have BPD, After years of not knowing why I am the way I am I decided to study psychology as a mature student, I wanted to find a way of helping myself and others and possibly find a diagnosis and methods of control to ...

I'm really irritated right now. As some of you know, I'd been having issues with my only friend. I blew up, we talked. I've been trying SO hard to listen to what he told me. Some of things were: not calling so much, not asking the same questions over and over, not complaining about things, not talking so much in general and staying calmer in general.

I usually call every hour and multiple times in ...

Hello there people.

I am having a tough time at the moment... (who would guess with all the posts I make lol)

Anyway, I have had a terrible last 4 days. I won't go into detail but, after more and more talking with the hubby about his insensitivities and attitude, and him saying for the 100th time, 'i will try harder' he comes home from work today and thinks it's ideal to tell me a ...