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So those fellow BPD-ers, I'd like to ask if you've ever split anyone from black to white in your lives. Also, do you have any control over the splitting event? For example, can you feel that " it's coming " so you can warn someone beforehand? What things help you in avoiding splitting, or in accepting a person who's been split black (but shouldn't have been)? Thanks !

When I initially lost my virginity at the age of 19 (I was a late bloomer) to a girl, we started dating. I was 19 living on my own, struggling from job to job and trying to make ends meet. She came from affluent an affluent family with a net worth of $40+ million dollars. We met at a friends' dinner party and kicked off from there. We dated for about 3-4 months until she ...

Hi everyone,

I wanted to make this thread to see if anyone else was in a similar situation to myself at the moment, or has been and could give me some advice or guidance because I'm seriously stuck/feeling completely alone in this.

I've smoked Cannabis on and off since I was 12, but much more heavily in the last two and a half years (I'm 21 now). It started off as a social thing and ...

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When I initially lost my virginity at the age of 19 (I was a late bloomer) to a girl, we started dating. I was 19 living on my own, struggling from job to job and trying to make ends meet. She came from affluent an affluent family with a net worth of $40+ million dollars. We met at a friends' dinner party and kicked off from ...

:D :D Thought I would post something light hearted for a change... :D What makes us all SMILE?

My 4 year old niece passed wind today and said 'sorry, that was my skunk!'

My big old ginger cat the way he lays in bed with me like a ...

i found this link whilst traipsing the internet earlier, and I found it pretty informative: http://eqi.org/invalid.htm

hi guys,

my sister is borderline and bi-polar, her doctor has been prescribing her benzos (that are meant to be used short-term) for years. she is an alcoholic and self-medicates with weed and other drugs, and is often suicidal. I want to contact her doctor however I am not legally allowed to do so.

I am wondering if anyone knows if there is ANY way to get a doctor to stop prescribing meds to an ...

Something which always confuses me:

Say I'm going through a difficult time, and I deal with this using self destructive coping mechanisms. They get more and more extreme as I feel more and more desperate.
I'll talk to someone about what's going on, and they'll express the opinion that things are "out of control". They'll elaborate on this a little, then say something like "Only you can control this."
To me, this seems like a ...

hi i'm 24 years old, and have a diagnosis of bpd, bipolar 1, adhd, panic disorder, ocd, and major depression. i'm in a dbt program and have been seeming to have sucess with it, but lately am having terrible issues with my jealousy/lonely feelings in my marriage and have been attacking verbally left and right for every little mistake. i don't know how to make it stop or make things right in my head, though ...

It's like once I start, I can't stop... Any advice?