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I want to stop liking BDSM.

Oke well yo begin i am 16y and i am a male.
I always mastrubated on lesbian porn (normal) and since the age of 15 i started to look around to other catagories of porn, i found BDSM with videos of women getting bound and ###$ by a machine or with electricity dildo and water bondage (almost drowning,...).an my reaction was :
HOT! And since then i always watched BDSM.
Recently i watched normal lesbian ...
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Confusion

HI all

I have been having S&M fantasies for a long time now, since I was 14, am 19 now. During the first few years of having these fantasies I felt virtually no guilt, that started to change a couple of years ago. I think it's because of the stigma that you have to be a freak or a weirdo to be turned on by it, consequently I started to think that there was something ...
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Self sexual abuse

I have found lately that I have become almost addicted to abusing my cock and balls. Hand sanatizer rubbed on my balls give me a short term heat and burning sensation. When I have the oppertunity I greatly enjoy whipping my balls with a short 6 stranded home made whip. The stinging sensation is fantastic. I have broken the skin several times. I really enjoy walking in public while my balls are in pain. The ...
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when does BDSM become an addiction

Hi all, Ive got a lot of fetishes and that is one part of my life I am NOT ashamed of anymore. I think BDSM appeals to a lot of different people for a lot of different reasons and there is really nothing wrong with it as long as you are comfortable with yourself. I like sexual humiliation and Ive always been fascinated with urine. I like to do forced femme, (forced anything), bondage, all ...
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Past Trauma and BDSM

Okay so I'm into being tied up and taken, done with what ever the hell they want to. I fantasize about a bunch of men taking me and tying me up and hurting me and making me do dirty things, spanking me with whips and calling me dirty names. This turns me on. A LOT. I want so badly to find someone to do this with. There is this guy on a um.... site that ...
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Problem

Hey guys, I'm an 18 year old male, and I'm into femdom. I've watched some videos from it since i was about 16, and can deal with the fact that I am turned on by those sorts of things.

However, I'm also afraid that it might start interfering with my sex life. I don't get aroused by regular porn. I do, however, have a girlfriend, and get aroused when we are doing vanilla things, so ...
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Not obsessed but affected.

So I am a sexual sadist. I don't obsess over the fantasies, I live normally but my sexual life is kind of run by the sadism. I don't "get off" by normal things anymore and there is a progression of the porn that is getting me "there". I use to be able to watch less hardcore porn but it seems every time I watch porn less is getting me off. I need pretty hardcore stuff ...
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DSM V

Wondered if you guys have checked out the up and coming changes to the sexual sadism and sexual masochism disorders for the dsm5!
http://www.dsm5.org/ProposedRevision/Pages/proposedrevision.aspx?rid=188
http://www.dsm5.org/ProposedRevision/Pages/proposedrevision.aspx?rid=187

I'm glad they are trying to discern the disorders from non disordered sadism and masochism. I think its important that they did this since there are sadists who go around raping people etc then there are the ones who find consenting partners for a "play session". I didn't look too ...
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Submissive desires wrong?

The first thing you guys need to know is that I have never told anyone this. Never. Haven't even hinted at it. So, this is kind of scary, telling a bunch of strangers my biggest secret. Just bear with me, and I'll try to explain my situation. And I apologize if it sounds similar to another post on this forum, I suppose I just have a common story. I'm still young, never been kissed or ...
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Self-discovery? Confused!

This is my first post here, and I’m kind of nervous, but I need to get this off my chest. I've been debating posting here for a few weeks. It's really long, (get a snack; take a bathroom break) but I hope you'll take the time to read it before replying, because I feel that the content is important.

First, it’s important to know that I’m a 17-year-old girl (18 in August), I’ve never had ...
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