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Hi, I'm a 21 y/o female that has the masochism disorder. I'm pretty sure you're familiar with the term, it means i'm deriving pleasure from pain. In my case though, it's not exactly recieving joy from pain, but it helps me calm down when I'm stressed or upset.

I've always dealt with it on my own way, which was usually self-injuring, since I had a boyfriend I used methods that didn't leave marks or other ...

lately i have been thinking deeply about myself and i started to believe what people is saying about me ... i was a freak .. i never really did it to someone before but i have fantasized about it.. i wanted to inflict pain to people and i like them calling me master i like to see them screaming . it gives me a sense of satisfaction when someone do that in my mind , ...

Hi everyone! My first topic on this website so be patient with me? :( My boyfriend and I engage in bdsm. Sometimes lifestyle, sometimes just when we're aroused. Ex: I might say things like "daddy carry me to bed" or " daddy, kitty really wants a new nightgown" and then there's typical sexual play as you know. What i need help with is i feel ashamed at ...

Not sure where to post this but I'm out of options and very scared for my sanity and my friends. Her fetish started up 8 months ago 1 week after we had a major fight and after reading one of the 50 shades books.

We used to be close, At one stage she wanted a relationship with me I made mistakes and let her down. I signed up to the same site as I was ...

Hi everyone. I would really appreciate some advice from people who 'get' BDSM. For as long as I can remember, I have been kind of obsessed with being spanked. I wasn't routinely spanked as a child (my dad hit me once that I can remember, and it wasn't on the bum; he did once threaten me with "I'll put you over my knee" but didn't do it) and I always figured it was just one ...

I'm a college student, female, and I have some problems concerning my sexuality. I've been sexually active in the past but never enjoyed it, though I didn't begin to piece together why until recently.

I've always been interested in BDSM, but since I never dated anyone interested I kept it in my head, where I now realize the only real sexual gratification I've had existed and where everything was either directly or indirectly connected to ...

Hi! I am a 30 years old female. I was dreaming about BDSM relationship for many years since childhood. I loved to read books, watch movies and BDSM porn and pictures online. When I was with my partners I always imagined scenes from the books or my own fantasies. When I was 23 years old I joined the board and looked for a specific partner but didn't like the people that I met and didn't ...

can anyone give me advice on this?

i met a guy i really like, on fetlife.com. we've been chatting for about two weeks, and are going to meet up this weekend. coffee only, for our first in person meeting. and then, well, if we click the way we do online, we'll start playing. we've already talked about our likes/dislikes, histories, safe sex, etc. we know how we want to play and we def. have compatible ...

Hey all,
I joinedthis site in hopes that I could get some advice/answers/insight on something thats been tearing my heart out. My boyfriend of 3 years and I are very happy. So i think. Our sex life is great & we incorporate light BDSM play into our sex. None of us are EXPERTS on it. We just enjoy it and enjoying being dom/sub and we take turns. Its always great. Especially us as a couple, ...

Hi, everyone I am hoping someone can point me in the right direction. So my realization that I was not exactly as vanilla as a few of my freind surprised nearly everyone including me when myself and a few freind were talking about sexual tastes. So I can be rather quiet or very outgoing depending on my company. However, when it comes to things of sexual nature I find myself shy and easily imitated. However, ...