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New, with questions!

I love sex! I mean... I really love it! But I've never been into anything BDSM. I'm not particularly into role-playing. I am usually slightly dominent in bed, but I think that's because most women are slightly submissive in bed.

But my new girlfriend.... Wow... what can I say? WOW!! I have never met a woman with her level of sexual energy. I met one that was close, 25 years ago, and while she excited ...
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Questions about BDSM relationships

Hello I am a sexy ######6 woman,


I have met a Master I am very fond of.
He already has a submissive lover, she is gorgeous! We plan on playing as a trio. My questions are: am I only allowed to be with him if she is there? Does she hold a higher rank? Is there a certain protocol for how subs treat each other when sharing a master? I am very into women as ...
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Curious about BDSM

I secretly want to lose all inhibition, and have the most amazing sex ever. Just to be a total freak. I have never, not even once, had an orgasm during sex. I have while masturbating, but no man has ever given me one. I want to be dominated. I'd also like to find out if I'm capable of squirting. I know I can orgasm because I get myself off all the time, so that's not ...
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Porn has made me sadistic, can i reverse it?

Obviously I have always had a sadistic streak. But I was still able to shag even not particularly attractive women normally around the same times I would look up perverse porn. However skip ahead a bit, and it has been years since I got laid and it got to the point where it was really hard to get off to anything in which the woman was not being degraded, dominated or humiliated in some way. ...
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New to BDSM and unsure where to start

Hi,

I'm hoping that someone out there is able to help!!!

I never thought that I was into BDSM or anything kinky until I started reading all of the erotic BDSM literature that is out there. I am very intrigued by the thought of being a sub or bottom but I am unsure of where to start.

I am not in a relationship right now, but ex partners have not been very willing when I ...
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Virginity and S&M

Hello, I'm new to this forum but I really wanted to put this up somewhere to get some sort of feedback.

So, as the subjects suggests, I have never had sex before but I also consider myself a sadist. I'm a woman, if that makes a difference, and I have found myself in sexual situations before but I usually push away my partner before anything serious occurs because typically the men I find myself in ...
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Sadism or just teenage experimentation?

Ok so just before entering puberty i discovered that seeing someone taking a nut shot gave me a boner. Then i started having pretty ###$ up but NEVER extreme or gory fantasies about what was essentially sexual torture, which soon ended when i realised what the attraction really came from. Problem is, now, I'll be playing a video game and I'll set someone on fire or something and think 'wow, that looks painful' and I'll ...
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Questions about 24/7 M/s relationships

Hello everyone. I apologize for cluttering up the forum with a post like this, but the subject won't leave my mind, and I need to ask these questions. First, I will preface this with the fact that I am not particularly into the BDSM culture as a sexual experience, at least not at the moment. I am curious about how it all works and plays out, but from more of a "So this is how ...
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I've lost friends, It ruined my relationship

Hey everyone,

I'm a 21 year old male and was severely bullied at school mostly by women. Not only was I bullied but I had to deal with my own mother who has a mental illness and had to grow up quite quickly to look after her. Since about the age of 10 I've had big rape fantasy's and enjoy torture and watching violent porn on the internet. I was in a relationship for quite ...
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Am I a real sadist or just panicking?

When I was about ten years old, I used to have fantasies of mild sexual torture, because with my lack of sexual understanding I thought pain of that nature was what triggered an erection. Eventually I realised what really did, and the fantasies stopped. However a part of me still seems hat wired to arousal from genital pain or domination. Basically if I see someone tied up, no matter the circumstance, I briefly get a ...
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