Messing with a narcissist's head?

Euler wrote:Since being in therapy, I'd simply write this off as another game empaths like to play which means none of you are serious about an equal relationship in any context...so you're not worth my time.

He/she asked, I answered. Doesn't mean I believe in the game.

But you are right... it ain't an equal relationship. But don't forget, most non-aware narcissists aren't serious about an equal relationship either... hence the crux of the problem.

Everybody is stupid on both sides. What you gonna do.

Since being in therapy, I'd simply write this off as another game empaths like to play which means none of you are serious about an equal relationship in any context...so you're not worth my time.

Well, I wouldn't lump all empaths into one bunch. I certainly wouldn't bother engaging with another person solely for the purpose of messing with their head. Granted, when you've been slighted to the degree that many Nons have experienced, there is a desire to seek revenge, if only fleeting. Doesn't mean it has to go beyond that desire. I know I've felt the desire to crush, though I've never let it ferment because, honestly, it would just take away from my own quality of life. It's also a dangerous gamble messing with someone who feels nothing in inflicting pain onto others. It's best to just move on. Hence my response to the OP. Though, ideally, you'd be so far gone, you'd have no idea how or whether the NPDer felt anything as a result.

I'm a sociopath so mind you. I had a very narcissistic woman I choose to mind screw once. I was her best little supplier ever. This gave me access to her computer and her cell phone. I put software on her comp to give me access to everything she typed down to the letter. I had a bug like gps device hooked to her cell phone. I also bugged her grandmothers home phone and installed a gps device to her vehicle. She loved herself so much she was easily convinced to take photos of us having sex. She loved looking at herself having sex. Every message either sent to her or she sent on her computer was intercepted and changed. Every voice mail Text message was deleted and or changed to fit my desire at the moment. Every bar she went to had a visit from me the following day claiming to have been giving aids via her and or showing her sex pics. I e-mailed her friends and family convincingly as if I were her the sex pics as well.

I widdled her down till I was her only person she had any contact with or showed her any interest at all. I watched her tormented and deranged outrages in my own personal joy and happiness as I brought the world crashing down before her. It was truly amazing. She was like a crippled retard looking for attention however she could get it. By the time I was finished with her she could lay down in the middle of the street naked with her butt in the air and no one would touch her or even give her a second glance.

She constantly threatened suicide and was so distraught constantly. She ended up moving to another city. She kept in contact with me though. She ended up throwing herself down some stairs and severely injuring herself. Eventually she stopped being amusing for me anymore and I stopped contact. Although I do mess with her now and then.

jtwolfy, that's pathetic. That you would do all that just to mess with somebody's. I would think all that effort could be useful somewhere else.

velouria wrote:Ignoring them.

Sooo True!!!!

The whole game of manipulation is a lose / lose situation.

period. A waste of time.

But not all of the mentally ill are aware or better yet, self- aware. "jmho"

Red

larry wrote:Don’t disagree with his stories or call out his lies. If you challenge him, he will know that you are no longer a viable source and is likely to simply leave you alone.

Wow. That pretty much confirms what I thought about someone I used to be friends with a while ago. I just wish I'd read this back then - I'd wanted them to leave me alone for a long time, but did all the wrong things until the end. Suppose the hard bit was that they were pretty obsessive about making sure there was no proof to call out most of their lies. Oh well, all over now. Lesson learned.

Yeah, it's my belief that narcissists are not that hard to figure out once you know what their primary motivation is. (supply)

But the reality is that they are best simply left alone. Life will usually do the rest.

larry wrote:Yeah, it's my belief that narcissists are not that hard to figure out once you know what their primary motivation is. (supply)

But the reality is that they are best simply left alone. Life will usually do the rest.

I guess you don't learn that sort of thing until you find out what you're dealing with. but anyone who's attracted one or two of the sort of people they really don't want to needs to take a good look at themself and ask why, to make sure they stop doing it. tbh that's why I'm here.

With me is that i hate woman, so one thing that erks me is when one tries to act more superior than I am. Of course, this applies with anyone.

Now you have him where you want him. All you have to do is stop giving supply. Don’t disagree with his stories or call out his lies. If you challenge him, he will know that you are no longer a viable source and is likely to simply leave you alone.
Instead, ALWAYS agree with him, but OFTEN just don’t answer the phone or return text messages. This way you are still a valuable source of supply(in his mind) but he just can’t seem to get you when he needs it(supply). Remember you answer the phone when it amuses YOU!!

I had a friend do this to me...Except we aren't friends anymore.
One day I was awesome, the next she criticizes me and calls me insane....

Oh and she also did this:

Ignoring them.

I don't know if I am a narcissist or not, but it definitely screwed with my head.