Spaced wrote:Man why is this board so dead?
The final blow seem to have been the closing of ASPD forums. A lot of people with Cluster B traits, who played well together, were driven out of Cluster B boards. I did not grasp a heft of reason behind that.
It does not help that individuals with narcissistic traits or moderate NPD were treated harsher (brutally sometimes) than people incapable to play well with others.
More specifically, NPD being a disorder looking to devalue, debase out of envy, advice from NPD individual to another individual with narcissism isn't always well-intentioned or meaning. Other Cluster B forums have had no issues accommodating a bunch of strong personalities at once. But on NPD board, there is always the one individual starting to feel entitled to the whole of existing supply on the board.
This would not have been an issue if a confident moderator had been named to help the difficult members ease in sharing the attention while allowing other individuals with narcissism to breathe. But it's people stoking the flames of divide, regardless of their recovery arcs or lack thereof, who were named instead.
Because of the absence of transparency, there is no way to know why this trajectory was never corrected. My imagination fails me too and I can't think of a good reason.
I can only helplessly witness Psychforums stumble on its own incompetence and toxicity. At the end of the day, Cluster B knowledge is technical, particularly NPD with its self-defeating counterintuitiveness, and it should not be hard to fathom why it is dangerous for amateurs to play God.
(Merry Christmas

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