Narcisistic Personaltiy Disorder and Its Effects

zabi wrote:Thats not what i meant. I meant "obviously i am not perfect , nobody is perfect"

I know what you ment to say. That nobody is perfect. But the wording is still interesting. Morality. Like what we value vs not value, a system of values. Like we say something is good or bad. Say some things that are good or bad for me in specific? And say which ones you feel most strongly about. Most good and most bad.

AProphet wrote:I know what you ment to say. That nobody is perfect. But the wording is still interesting. Morality. Like what we value vs not value, a system of values. Like we say something is good or bad. Say some things that are good or bad for me in specific? And say which ones you feel most strongly about. Most good and most bad.

Good one is easy for me. LIFE. I think life is simply amazing. I think we are so lucky that we can experience ANYTHING. Literally, we can experience anything we want to. Sadness. happiness , madness, you name it we can feel/experience it.
About bad thing tho, since i suffer from NPD, and my worst experiences caused by NPD, i think worst thing is the war where a man fights against himself. You cant win any fights if your arch enemy is yourself.
I know above paragraph was very theatrical but thats what i really feel. But if you want more concrete answer :
the best thing is feeling that you matter. And worst thing is the opposite. What could be more meaningless, sad or bad that whatever you do, it doesnt effects anything? What is the point of love if you didnt make anyone dream about you ? What could be sadder if you didnt effect the life of your best friends or your loved ones?

zabi wrote:the best thing is feeling that you matter. And worst thing is the opposite. What could be more meaningless, sad or bad that whatever you do, it doesnt effects anything? What is the point of love if you didnt make anyone dream about you ? What could be sadder if you didnt effect the life of your best friends or your loved ones?

You mean affect in a positive way? Or any way. Whats the point of love if you made someone suffer? What could be sadder if you hurt your friends and loved ones? Your morality is egocentric I think. Its about how you relate to things.

AProphet wrote:You mean affect in a positive way? Or any way. Whats the point of love if you made someone suffer? What could be sadder if you hurt your friends and loved ones? Your morality is egocentric I think. Its about how you relate to things.

In any way. But not extremely bad of course. Maybe someone started drinking thanks to me or because of me. This means i meant something to them in a way. Suffering or getting hurt is part of the love or relationship i think. My friends or partners didnt have a disorder like mine but they hurt me too anyway. Its more like a pros cons situation to maintain a relationship. I know i am very egocentric but i dont think my morality hurts others that much. I know i am not the best person to be friends or partners but not the worst one either.