Sex

Kimera wrote:

ZombieZ wrote:Hi my name is Z and wth!!

Are you trying to be on topic, Z? That ship sailed awhile ago.

In love with yourself, are you? You're definitely in the right place.

And, hey, at least sex with her frees up a hand.

Contrast wrote: There just isn't a culture of imagining it's off limits, first because nobody expects the courtesy off others, and secondly because nobody themselves is inclined to restrain themselves when given the opportunity.

I get it.

Contrast wrote:We could argue about who actually posts over there.

I get that, too.

Yeah, I couldn’t figure out where to post this and to be honest I haven’t been following so I figured this was as good a place as any. You’re so pointy, I love it

Lol, the topic of sex petered out when two posters sidetracked it around page 4 of this thread.

If Kimera wants her thread to have other topic diversions here, she's welcome to it. However it is getting difficult for others who haven't read thru the entire thread to follow it. Others will think, huh, is this about sex or what?

It's like Akuma said, I missed out on teh drama. So did I.

Just do what I did and pretend you know what's going on, insert yourself and try desperately to make yourself relevant. Learned that one from a narcissist I know, actually

-- Fri May 11, 2018 10:53 pm --

Perhaps there ought to be a 'tag' in titles where threads are hijacked, sidetracked, etc. Mods could add a [sidetracked @ pg 4) so people who arent interested in reading the irrelevant comments can read up to those parts... Or, if more like me, just skip to the drama. lol

Contrast wrote:try desperately to make yourself relevant

Funny how you nailed the behavior ... (Although it's hard to believe you are trying yourself that hard because it looks pretty effortless)

The highs and lows, the accusations and confessions, betrayals and semi-sincere apologies....I think we should make a ######6 musical out of this thread.

Contrast wrote:Does that mean you're still hawking over the subforum, Eight? The way you mentioned participating if you see anything just made me wonder-- Is that really any better, besides maybe allowing your ego some breathing room by being able to say you don't participate?

Nah. Don't go there unless someone draws my attention to something, or unless OneRinger posts there - he and I are discussing stuff and there's some crossover.

It isn't about ego, Courtier. It can be about appealing to my baser self, though. The shadow. And that's what's most disconcerting to me right now, and really what five was touching on. I don't deny it but I don't have to cultivate it either. So, nah.

Related to this subforum but still not related to this thread (I'm getting there!), two dxed NPD members who (used to) frequent that subforum still read it on a daily basis without posting. I think because, in the same way, it embarrasses them to be associated with and engaged in the petty nonsense that goes on. They cant pull themselves away though. No less shameful since the investment is still the same, in my opinion.

And you know this how?
Drama can be a pull. FOMO is a draw for some. Life-lacking is another reason - some people's stories are pretty dismal when you're allowed to see behind the curtain of their forum presentation.
I can't really see the appeal, though, of reading without participating, except for the above reasons.

In any case, Eight, you're missed-- and you're missing out on all my progress. Jomp had to take on a patriarch role for me after you left a vacancy there

Thanks. Guess you'll have to come to NPD or SPD or JFF to get your dose of me.

Poor jomp. Maybe as patriarch he'll have more success than I did as matriarch with you. Do you have daddy or mommy issues - which? I can't recall.

As for your progress, I am interested in that - you know that. You'll have to find another way to inform me if you want me to know.

I completely glossed over the fact that I sympathise with you. Just got caught on a detail and forgot to mention it

As someone with no diagnosis and no PD that I can detect, I've wondered what you are doing in AsPD. Do you know? Do you care? Similar perhaps to five, I know you can relate somewhat there but not enough to call that place home, I think. Why not spread yourself around more? Or do as he did and leave.

Contrast wrote:It was used initially as an attempt to discredit a pool of members in one swift sweep but lately it's been used as a tool to isolate and play with members that would be the targets of the preying.

Just silly interpersonal games. I don't think he honestly believes a word of it

Ah so it was you I was supposed to be.

I agree with this interpretation. In fact I would go further and say that those he tries to manipulate with this bullsh*t adopt it because it suits their purposes or emotional needs.

He doesn't strike me as more of a bullsh*ter than the average NPD or ASPD member though ...

I mean, if you're going to bullsh*t, might as well entertain me a bit at the same time. I am not powerless in face of nonsense, but boredom is lethal.

"I think we should make a ######6 musical out of this thread."

Aha, the director and producer speaking.

"...but boredom is lethal."

That's AsPD when nothing is jumping.

realityhere wrote:That's AsPD when nothing is jumping.

True.