The meek and Mild Narcissists at play. The meek shall inherit the Earth! It's all about the survival of the fittest, boys and girls! I've read some of Heinlein's early novels. I need to be less of an obsessive compulsive and jump to his later ones. Heinlein offered a solution to pathological personality with his suggestion of licensed parenthood.
http://youtu.be/Pn_EiAzW2uQNo narcissistic perfectionists in the World, no visionary novelists; or vacations in Rome!
The motto of the Fragile Narcissist is "never do for yourself that which you can beguile others to do for you". If he's a counter dependent type it is also "order, harmony and symmetry in all things " and two fingers up to the World. If she's a codependent type, it's likely to be "peace and love" and two fingers to the World. No Empaths in the World, no social workers and primary school teachers! Are you starting to see the big picture yet?
SV again.
http://youtu.be/sU305NqXT94
In the words of the song: "I am what I am. And, what I am needs no excuses..."