Doc Dx: "Labels aren't really helpful, but yes - you meet all of the diagnostic criteria for NPD"
So what : he doesn't like labels and he labels you

Doc Dx: "Labels aren't really helpful, but yes - you meet all of the diagnostic criteria for NPD"
Livinginmyhead wrote: I love you all - and hope that you to find freedom.
TheLord wrote:TTL
I dont mean not self aware by uncured. You can be self aware still not cured.
Most will not agree that there is any cure in the first place. How can there be a cure if it was not invented by the almighty N.
The only time there will be a cure, it will be when it was invented by the almighty N himself. I dont say this to offend you, I am sayingbthis based on my experience on the forum and in life.
TheLord wrote:I dont mean not self aware by uncured. You can be self aware still not cured.
VioletAasA wrote:Livinginmyhead wrote: I love you all - and hope that you to find freedom.
Just my thoughts to the OP if he ever gets interested to read what the 'I love you all' members have to say.
I think this is what puts the You in isolation: me vs all of you on this site with a flavour of superiority. You don't see individuals here, just a mass that you address.
This is peer support forum, and you are not coming as a peer but rather as a messiah and to promote your journey and your truth as the only truth. Now, thinking of that, maybe Messiah was a narcissist too.
This is the phase in your life , perhaps the next one will be humbleness and ability to relate?
With all said above, I am not negative to your journey. This is your journey and I respect that.
I with you well on your journey.
TheLord wrote:VioletAasA wrote:Livinginmyhead wrote: I love you all - and hope that you to find freedom.
Just my thoughts to the OP if he ever gets interested to read what the 'I love you all' members have to say.
I think this is what puts the You in isolation: me vs all of you on this site with a flavour of superiority. You don't see individuals here, just a mass that you address.
This is peer support forum, and you are not coming as a peer but rather as a messiah and to promote your journey and your truth as the only truth. Now, thinking of that, maybe Messiah was a narcissist too.
This is the phase in your life , perhaps the next one will be humbleness and ability to relate?
With all said above, I am not negative to your journey. This is your journey and I respect that.
I with you well on your journey.
This reply is a very good example of what I said, OPs cure will be rejected, it will be devalued, it will be taken some kind of fraud, or some some kind of promotion, not a genuine attempt by someone who had NPD, can relate with other NPDs, and now want to share his idea of how it can be healed just the same way he healed.
Think about a girl who was raped, now she is on a mission to save other girls from sexual abuse, she can relate with them but when she starts to addresss them a girl comes forward and says you are a Narcissist, this is a peer support institution, you are coming here as a messiah blah blah blah.
All the genuine efforts of the girl on the mission will be wasted if everyone starts saying this to her. This is called resistence by the people with Personality Disorder for any kind of solution, treatment, cure to the problem. This is the very reason many hate their therapists, call their therapists arrogant, not knowledgeable, and that NPDs know more than their therapist, and that they were able to fool the therapists so, how can the therapist be better knowing than them etc.
And this is why many therapists are not interested in treating NPDs and this is why many NPDs come here complaining that while there are so many support places for the N victims, but not for the NPDs.
I hope I explained this in an inoffensive manner, because offending others was not my purpose but rather bing able to tell what I have observed so far.
TheLord wrote:This is called resistence by the people with Personality Disorder for any kind of solution, treatment, cure to the problem. This is the very reason many hate their therapists, call their therapists arrogant, not knowledgeable, and that NPDs know more than their therapist, and that they were able to fool the therapists so, how can the therapist be better knowing than them etc.
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