The Madonna/Whore Complex in Men and Women

WendyTorrance wrote:

creative_nothing wrote:Right now, you have a piece of my heart.

Better save for the savior.

If not you, who will be my saviour?

creative_nothing wrote:

WendyTorrance wrote:

creative_nothing wrote:Right now, you have a piece of my heart.

Better save for the savior.

If not you, who will be my saviour?

Shun? Role reversal.

twistednerve wrote:

creative_nothing wrote:

WendyTorrance wrote:Better save for the savior.

If not you, who will be my saviour?

Shun? Role reversal.

Nope. Esmeralda.



But yes, she really reminds me of my younger brother.


Anyway, I have many saviours, Shun, together with Seiya, Shiryu and Hyoga also saved me by defeating me.

Of course all four together against me, otherwise they wouldnt have a chance.

I'm still confused about this topic. I see no clear answers but ambiguous crap. I clearly need to know by an n or p if it is possible for a non to be both Madonna and whore to her n/p? Frankly I am a freak in bed and I am also loving and gentle. Like basically let me pamper you during the day but when we go to the bedroom let me throw on my school girl skirt and fishnet stockings and go crazy with you and do nasty things with you (the n). Can the n brain deal with the 2 sides of me or will he be disgusted with my whore side? Am I making any sense? I want to be both not just 1 and I'm thinking this is also a win win for both parties.

fretless mayhem1 wrote:I'm still confused about this topic. I see no clear answers but ambiguous crap. I clearly need to know by an n or p if it is possible for a non to be both Madonna and whore to her n/p? Frankly I am a freak in bed and I am also loving and gentle. Like basically let me pamper you during the day but when we go to the bedroom let me throw on my school girl skirt and fishnet stockings and go crazy with you and do nasty things with you (the n). Can the n brain deal with the 2 sides of me or will he be disgusted with my whore side? Am I making any sense? I want to be both not just 1 and I'm thinking this is also a win win for both parties.

I think you need to be more precise with your request.
It seems that you assume all pwNPDs are males; or you are bisexual. It is not clear from your post.
Are you adressing your question to Ns/Ps with Madonna/whore complex? Or are you assuming that all NPDs do have Madonna/Whore complex?

Because frankly, my NPD brain doesn't want to deal with any side of you in that context. I am strait female.

fretless mayhem1 wrote:I'm still confused about this topic.

I am as well -- for different reasons. I suspect many are confused by this topic...

I see no clear answers but ambiguous crap.

Maybe there are no clear answers? It depends on the question, the people here who choose to respond and to what extent one can generalize from their words to your question which involves a unique individual, you, and another unique person too.

I clearly need to know by an n or p if it is possible for a non to be both Madonna and whore to her n/p? Frankly I am a freak in bed and I am also loving and gentle.

I don't think anyone can say it is impossible in some general case. A lot of other PD traits can get mixed in and the complexion of narcissism is different for different people. I think it may also be related to the question of being a 'freak' -- in particular if it is seen as intrinsically dirty to either party... IDK

[quote]Can the n brain deal with the 2 sides of me or will he be disgusted with my whore side? Am I making any sense?

Yes you are making sense.

fretless mayhem1 wrote:I clearly need to know by an n or p if it is possible for a non to be both Madonna and whore to her n/p?

Well that's sort of the point. Those with this particular complex, for lack of a better word, have a difficult time refraining from unconsciously splitting women into these categories when they begin to take a romantic or intimate interest in the woman. Obviously this is very frustrating for those who have this complex, as well as those who are interested in them romantically. Which is why I thought this might make a worthwhile topic.