kick me out permanantly & don't look back

I have had migraines, sleeplessness, loss of appetite since coming here. I don't care about throwing blame anymore, I'd like to be deleted, locked out and mutually forgotten. This place is obviously NOT made for all of us to inhabit. Life was disfuctional, but so much better before I played "like-me" and "what's up" games. I give. Thow me under the door and lock it tight.

*edited*, I regret never having gotten to know you as you are. You need to start your own forum, you don't need a back-up chorus,I wasn't stalking you, you had so much talent, but I must go...


Open the door....Cardinalsfan/Mollie

I feel that perhaps due to you being triggered by this person, this has led to you feeling not so well... In which case, I think sticking around but avoiding the forums with that person might help you to feel better as you will be able to discuss your mental health problems and get support from others here.

I agree; this is a great place but you need to be careful. If it's making you feel worse you have to monitor what's the best choice for you.

CardinalFan,

I think you are a very passionate person and feel things really strongly (as shown by your love for your team). Perhaps there is something about this other person that sort of triggers something in you that even you don't even recognize. Maybe the name or the avatar. I know some avatars really say something to me. I think Salted Lipstick has a really good point in that you can find some real value here if you maybe hang out in the fun place or some section that maybe that person doesn't hang so much or at a time that the person is not there. Just until you have sort of totally work through this.

I don't think either of you are bad. My minister said the other day that sometimes it is just "one person's trauma bumping into another person's trauma at just the time that there is a lot of pain". I think everyone deserves a chance to work through their pain.