Allo there

He might think I'm out of my mind, lol. And I'd check with a psych or MD before doing anything. But if she's doing so poorly that her body is giving up--why not try it? Might help.

--Frayed

Hey.. I didn't bother asking anyones professional opinion first.

Just spoke to her brother... he's going to try doing as you suggested

It's hard to tell what her bad dreams are about... it's probably not a good idea to ask her because she is so mentally and physically fragile at the moment.

So saying happy memories softly to her can't be a negative thing at all... even if symptoms render it useless then there is no harm that can happen.

...i'm gonna remain positive, even in the hardest of times ...it's what i've always done... even when it seems wrong >.<

wtf... i'm so ######6 confused..

her brother said she was screaming in her sleep... he assured me that he was saying nothing she could relate to anything bad.


W T F

OK...that's unexpected. I'm confused, too...

I would apologize, but I honestly didn't see that one coming. So, if I said that I was sorry, I would be lying. Which I don't like to do.

Screaming in physical pain or in anger? 'Cuz if it's in anger, that might mean she's processing something--which can be good, motivational.

What did he say? Was he describing a good memory? Are you positive that he didn't mention anyone who might be a trigger for her?

At this point, I'd either try it one more time, being careful not to mention specific people, or get a shrink involved.


Remain positive, definitely. Both for her and for yourself.

--Frayed

Aye... i'll try to find out more.. I dunno for sure anything at the mo.

No need to apologize.. wasn't like anyone expected it =|

I've told him that she needs a psychiatrist of some sort... although I dunno what he's gonna do about that. Apparently she's having a brain scan of some sort today and also a test that's like an 'x-ray of the heart'. So ye... busy schedule


I try find out what he said more accurately.. but he assured me he said nothing that could trigger anything, but then again I dunno how well he knows her 'triggers'.

Since you know her better, would you be able to call her room and talk to her as she falls asleep, or is sleeping? 'Cuz at this point, there's a chain of 4 people involved as far as communication is concerned...

Hang in there...

--Frayed

...Maybe HE is a trigger?

--Frayed

...yeah I was thinking that... i dunno. hard for me to tell this guy that though.

Hopefully I can chat to her as she falls asleep... I'll see what I can do, but circumstances at the mo are really weird.

Okay

where to start... good news or bad news?

Good news - pretty much found out what's wrong with her

Bad news - she's got a brain tumour...

...it's what i feared a few days ago... but i was searching for something else it could have been... anything >.<

they're going to test to see if it's cancerous




happy f*cking easter f*cking holidays

oh yeah.. and... she's forgotten everything all over again