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Hi,

Firstly, don't ever let your past define who you are now. What happened happened, and you'll just have to accept that fact and move on. If you feel the need to discuss it for a while, then do so, but always have the intention oif swiftly moving on. Im referring to the incident with you, your old friend, and the girl here, of course. On the other issue, please tell me right now whether you are attracted to girls or not. When you give me your answer (Im assuming it'll be a 'yes'), then ask me this: Does the idea of having a sexual relationship with a guy repulse you?

Whatever your answers to those questions are, you don't have to be completely hetero- or homosexual. There are middle-grounds to these things. I mean, you can mostly like females, but you can also be rather adventurous and could feasibly end up having a 'fling' with a male given the right circumstances.

Kevin