Foxes wrote:To the OP
The people on this forum don't have a responsibility to help you, we're not your therapist, we can give and take what we want to help ourselves. this is to support ourselves, we have no responsibility to help each other, though helping other is certainly a grand thing to do.
Making this thread instead of simply leaving the forum was dramatic and attention seeking, because - with child abuse and paraphilias to boot - you're probably a borderline and quite astutely and unknowingly $#%^ stirring.
I think that was a little insensitive

don't make it about her having bpd, we're not all like that. she's suffering just as much as anyone and even though she is being a little dramatic she still deserves peoples respect, and not to be belittled.
and please don't take this as me $#%^ stirring, i'm just pointing it out.

xx