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Hello there. I am new here. My name is Jennifer, I am 23 and I have been married for a year. My husband is 28. We have a cat named Spookie. I have ADHD, and my husband has Asbergers. I live a very lonely and confusing life. I feel as if nobody ever understands what I am going through. Before my marriage, I was very care free. I was not even half as stressed as I am now. I cannot vent to anyone, for they either think I'm being over-dramatic or they completely treat me like I don't matter. Mainly my family. I feel as if my marriage is becoming celibate, as he becomes frustrated quickly when we try anything, and proceeds to storm off or shut down. We have come close to divorcing because he put his hands on me violently while he was drunk. I feel as if I am the mother of my husband. Dealing with my own issues AND his is a very very stressful issue. I have severe panic disorder and depression and I feel as if he doesn't care much. Anyway. Im new here. So, Hello...

You're welcome here, Jennifer. family-support/ seems like it might be a helpful place to settle in. As well as diagnosis specific forums where that is supportive. Wherever you feel comfortable, really.