badeth wrote:My husband asked for divorce yesterday. Since last year, we've been quarreling about petty mistakes that led to serious physical abuse. I don't know the real reason why my husband filed a divorce since, in the first place, I'm the victim here. I should have filed a case against him, but i didn't try because I don't want to ruin our family.
I do not exactly know how to stop this divorce. I'm open to save our marriage and forgive my husband. I gave him time and some space alone to think of this marriage, but he refused and told me that he was serious about it. Can anyone give me some advice on this?
Victim? Sounds like you're a doormat - why do you want to stay with someone who knocks you around, unless you're into that type of stuff?
Newsflash: Your family is already ruined and he doesn't want to be with you.