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thanks, surely...I'm trying to forget what has happened, but sometimes it comes into my mind saying that ' you spoilt yourself'. It was the worst thing. Both i and few ppl around me thought it were all unexpected of my current situation. Even, those who used to fail badly in exams have managed to pass to next year, but not me .

I will write a paper, Bit scared because i had revealed the ideas to few of my friends long back. I hope no one misuses the idea.

what do you mean you're trying to forget what happened? That you failed your exams?

If they're your friends they'll still support you.

Amber x

yes, i know i really cant forget that... but felt like keeping my mind from that bad incident.

I'm trying to get some info about how to submit a paper, where to submit, and any forum for that... I'm not getting any kind of info abt it till now, will be back after that.

great sounds like you're making progress

hi, feeling irritated butterfly. I have no professional guide to me, to write paper. My mom blasted on me today. i want to change the college, and no progress after the first step.

Hey again!

I thought you were turning to friends for help? Do they know just as little as you? What other avenues have you tried? Tutors, guidance counsellors etc?

What you mean your mum blasted you?

So no exchanges going on? Have you thought of having a year out and trying all over again next year? I know a year is a long time and you want your qualifications but maybe you're just a little swamped and need a break to get things in order.

Let me know how things are

my mom was blaming me/condemning me.

I wont feel okay to meet them again, neither the tutors... may have to look some other tutor who can help me with it. I had googled, and had traversed into some websites where i got partial information about it. Somewhere, i feel like 'i dont want a degree', but i need it. So i really have a feeling to change the college if i need to study again. Even changing to a worst possible college would be good to me. I feel it will be better that what the current college is.

Have you explained to your mum what's going on and how you feel?

Why wont it feel okay to meet with your friends? That's what friends are for, support when you need it.

I know the feeling that you don't want a degree, it's just up to you how far you want to go in life, if you're happy settling for a lower branch on the tree that's okay.

Maybe more research would yield more results in order for you to get the information you need. Google is everyone's best friend

Have you been looking round for different colleges then? Grab a few prospectuses and browse through and see where you want to go. There's nothing stopping you from moving and starting again. At least you have the strength to carry on moving forward.

Best of luck!

I have bipolar and I am in depression for two years I went to many doctor and I made Electroconvulsive therapy but until now I am in depression please help me I am very bad ..

Hiya Adnan

What made them resort to electro-convulsive therapy? Did you have a follow up appointment afterwards to assess how you were? Did you feel at all better after the therapy?

Have you returned to your GP since having this new depressive episode?

Butterfly x