Does miracles happen?

Hello,

There was a time when I was good in studies and I had good friends but over the years, I lost everything.

1. My family doesn't really care about me. They are all busy in their lives.
2. I have no friends in the area. Everybody is so far away and they are busy in their lives
3. I didn't finish my education. I am 2 courses away from achieving my diploma but I have no motivation to study. I feel like there is no future for me because i failed few courses before. I have to do something from scratch to get a good job.
All my friends and family members are so successful in their lives that I feel like I am a failure as I have nothing
4. I tried dating but I didn't find any guy . Now, I don't even feel the need to have anybody in my life.

I just don't have any motivation or interest to do anything. I don't think I am depressed. People say life is short but my life seems way too long. I have lost hope. I prayed for a better life or peace in life but I got nothing so now I am mad at god too. I know nothing replaces hard work but my work didn't yield good results in the past. I was hoping for some kind of miracle so I can get back on track but I feel like it's too late to do anything great with my life as i have no motivation and no interest. I believe things won't change for me.

Thanks for listening.

Hi lostinthisworldd,

I’m sorry you feel that way. I don’t know if miracles happen. I’m not a believer in organized religion though. Perhaps it would be worth speaking to your spiritual advisor? Good luck.

Thanks for reaching out for help. Shows that you have not given up. I think you will do better once we get past the government lockdown. I too feel so alone and so unmotivated (big caveat - not all the time). It surprised me when a guy working on my house responded to me when I pointed out an unrelated minor problem to fix. He said lets take a look at that right now. I have since thought if I can just go do something NOW. It gives me a small bit of time when I am doing something and not thinking how unloveable I am. The do something now can be the laundry or a walk outside to see the beauty in nature that surrounds us.

Hi Person, Please take the initiative to listen to what I feel is a very helpfull weakly radio broad cast. The program is "The Happiness Hour" on every Friday. You can do a search on The Happiness Hour Dennis Prager.

"I believe things won't change for me."
I think it shows the mistakes of your thinking. Things should change for you to feel like you've got your life together. You need to change, to accept that your life has fallen apart in your eyes.

I've had many breakdowns, I got used to it and learnt how to get out of it. I am never afraid of feeling bad or feeling down, I know I am going to get out of it when I can, and I just let it go. And let me tell you, you can go as high in your life as deep you are now. This is the miracle, the beauty of the mind and the universe. As above, so below. When you get down, you actually get an opportunity to get up.

Let it fall apart, let hope be lost, let feel whatever you feel, look at itt, like when you stop running in a scary dream, and stop, then realize, nothing is happening if I stop running, and I made the cycle - by running, I created the thing which I run away from.

Hi. Miracles do happen. Please, just try to persevere through the worst and forget about everyone else's achievements. Focus on your goals and yourself. Please, try to forgive yourself for any past mistakes. Pray to God or your superior power to give you the strength to accomplish your goals. And while doing these things, try to be as humble as the poorest man. Always treat others with kindness and compassion, even if they are bad actors.