Etabob,
Welcome to the forums.
I understand where your rage comes from--and I believe that you are justified in your feelings. I also appreciate your corrections. But the way you expressed them is a bit harsh.
To me, "personal demons" means simply problems that someone is struggling with. I don't see Rita as being a jerk. You can't tell what she's thinking...you can only assume, and in this case, I don't think that Rita meant harm.
I understand that this thread was very triggering for you. But please don't call people names, and don't be rude. Above all, don't make someone pay for another person's mistakes.
Also...this thread is almost 2 years old...
If you want to talk, feel free to create a new thread. If you would like my input, PM me if I don't catch the thread.
Take care,
--Frayed