With the exception of cases where the dumped party was being emotionally negligent, whenever I hear about a break-up, I NEVER sympathize with the person who did the dumping. I always sympathize with the one who got dumped. Even though I've been on both sides myself. The way I see it; if you ended the relationship, then what the f*ck do you need support for? Obviously you feel you're so better off without the person that you discarded them, so... congratulations, if anything. You got what you wanted. So why are you bitching again?

My shoulder is for the one who had no choice and whose quality of life has been decreased against their will, to cry on.