It's not a crush, it's more a concern for a fellow forum member... they've been quiet and a couple of posts they have done on the forum have been rather depressive - so naturally I am concerned for my friends well-being and that's all it is.
I have been pretty busy lately and end up getting home and being completely drained of energy so going out tends to be put on the backburner until I have the energy and inclination to go out, like I did on Saturday night.