Do You Have a Crush Here?

How do you get a crush?

Hubert_Cumberdale wrote:How do you get a crush?

I dunno, it just happens, y'know? It's the whole notion of love and attraction and all that. How it would happen online, I don't know.

Oh is that what it is? I never seem to understand anything. I can't even 'have a crush' in real life.

Hubert_Cumberdale wrote:Oh is that what it is? I never seem to understand anything. I can't even 'have a crush' in real life.

Unless you're asexual, you probably will at some point.

Here's a tip, though, for when it does happen: tell your crush you like them before they find out. This is crucial. Probably a dead end if they find out before you inform them. Trust me on this one.

I had to look up asexual on google. I could be. I gess time will tell.
And thanks for the advice. Maybe it will come in handy one day.

hmmm I am only new here but I must admit there are some that intrigue me... I know that I can sometimes attach myself to things a bit too easily and I must admit there are people I like in here but as far as a crush goes... I don't think I have one at this time...

MMonroe & Maddog,

You guys are sweet .

I only ever had a genuine crush on one person here, but will not be mentioning her username. In 'real-life' I have a crush on a 31 year old English lady. I do'nt know if this is good or bad (for her) - haha

Caturday wrote:MMonroe & Maddog,

You guys are sweet .

Cat, I'm pretty sure you're the queen of kindness on here. You deserve some sweetness

Kindness and an open honesty are something we should all respect and I have to say a big thanks to everyone on here.... I know you guys have helped me through a lot and given the current situation in my life I don't know if I could develop a 'crush' at this time or not.

There are people here I respect and admire and that is as close to a 'crush' as I can get for now I think, if I develop a crush I would admit it but I don't know if I could bring myself to saying who it was I had the crush on (especially in public like this... that would require me to feel confident enough in myself for that) If I did however develop a crush I may tell the person but I know that in High School I developed a lot of crushes that never went 'public'