What inspired your username?

Yes, so Im beginning to see. They really can be horrid (prople, I mean). If you can be happy being by yourself, then that's fine. I don't think that you're happy this way, and that you actually would like to be a bit more social. If I'm wrong, then tell me.

I joined this forum because I'm not happy.

Yes, as I have come to see. You are clearly a nice/kind person, so please at least be awre of that. People would want to get to know you.

Kevin

Chucky wrote:Yes, as I have come to see. You are clearly a nice/kind person, so please at least be awre of that. People would want to get to know you.

Kevin

What purpose does telling someone "you're clearly a nice/kind person" serve? This is a genuine question.

It's a nice gesture. And I know, but people still freak me out.

Read a book where the lead female was nicknamed Addy and it sort of can be used as mine too so I took it up:) what about you?

Well, I'm Mary. And a kid. Sort of. Therefore: marykid.

Eric_Lee wrote:
What purpose does telling someone "you're clearly a nice/kind person" serve? This is a genuine question.

Thank you for asking. I had assumed that it was a comment that nobody had ever said to her before and, therefore, me saying it to her would surprise her and maybe allow her to search her true personality and see that maybe - yes - she IS a nice person. A lot of the way I approach things here is simply getting people to think a different way. I get repeated praise from members and I therefore feel that what I'm doing is reasonably helpful.

Any further questions, then please don't be afraid to ask me (I know you won't be [afraid]).

Kevin

Chucky wrote:

Eric_Lee wrote:
What purpose does telling someone "you're clearly a nice/kind person" serve? This is a genuine question.

Thank you for asking. I had assumed that it was a comment that nobody had ever said to her before and, therefore, me saying it to her would surprise her and maybe allow her to search her true personality and see that maybe - yes - she IS a nice person. A lot of the way I approach things here is simply getting people to think a different way. I get repeated praise from members and I therefore feel that what I'm doing is reasonably helpful.

Any further questions, then please don't be afraid to ask me (I know you won't be [afraid]).

Kevin

That seems quite complex for somthing so simple. Out of my field of comfort.

But, you genuinly beleive this person is nice despite never meeting them, and only reading a post that could be complete and utter BS? Do you act this way in real life? Cause thats just setting yourself up to be used.

Wow, What an argument, Eric! Some good people need the necessity to help others with some kind words even if they don´t meet them. It´s like to say, you are welcome here. What about you? or What´s your problem?. It´s only a way to say, you are a person and I´m here to share some words with you.

Perhaps is only a way to start a conversation, Eric. What about making the world a bit more comfortable? Aren´t we just enough ###$?