shanzeek wrote:EasyasPi wrote:
Yeah, age works it out it like anything else. You could partner up with an ENTJ.
My wife has inferior Ne and it still is bad in middle age. I barely reflect on the past and I'm bad with bottom Si.
I just worry about what i can do.
That's interesting, my ex boyfriend is ENTJ and I was often accused of irrationality/over-emotionality, and I do see the change in me from before and after the rl.
Reflecting on the past comes from Si? It's all I do, either reflect on the past or future, I rarely live in the present, I find it boring even.

Si is using past impressions, and depending on the type it can go in different directions. If someone is of the sensing type, they have a tendency to stay with the "tried and true." My mother in-law is SJ and she stays in a comfortable zone of facts and nothing but the facts. The only future orientation is using history as an example.
In Idealist types, they see themselves in the future as what they could
become, striving for the ideal. Not so with Feeling sensors.
One funny and interesting thing about SJ types is they sentimentally live in the past. They will keep dated things that belong in a museum because of memory lane thinking. Lol.
INTPs and INFPs also have a sentimental streak.
My dad is ISTP and my mother was ESFJ. Same with my sister in-law and her husband. Common pairing here.
No one in my family is NT or NF.