by Koopa » Tue Jun 02, 2015 12:10 am
In order to tell if video game 'addiction' is ruining your life, you have to understand what it would be without it. A lot of the time, people can push all the blame on a specific thing in their life, and assume that if they can remove that one obstacle, that everything will be well again. That's not always true, and in fact often isn't, but still, removing even a single obstacle can help tremendously sometimes.
I battled things like this in myself for a time, but it turned out that it was simply a coping method for me, and that when better things were available, I could put it aside with surprising ease (but not for extended amounts of time).
I don't know you. I don't know your life. And I am not going to tell you that you should quit, nor am I going to tell you that what you are doing is perfectly okay. You know yourself far better than I do, so you'll have to decide for yourself.
What I understand about addiction (or compulsion in this case), is that in order to break the addiction, simply stopping isn't enough. You need to find something less damaging to replace it. You may find that after you stop, there is nothing to replace it, and that itself can be the problem.
I'm sorry I can't advise you better, but I hope this helps in some small way...
Officially diagnosed: ADHD, Clinical Depression. "Unofficially" diagnosed: Schizotypal
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