by danscott7 » Thu Sep 29, 2011 12:58 pm
Thanks;
I know this posting is about you, but yes, my situation IS sad. I simply do not comprehend the way the world works. Changes occur in the world because of people who choose to make those changes. I just don't get that.
People change their lives. I just don't get that,either.
Without going into boring detail, for it's difficult for me to explain it anyway, I will say that I do not live in the same world most people live in. I live in my own little world, and have since I was a child.
Now, at 42, I am in a crappy, low paying job, which would depress anybody, but especially someone who is smart, talented, and ambitious like me.
I suppose a lot of it has to do with my upbringing. Everything I liked my parents were dead set against. Music, tv shows, movies, etc. Rules and regulations are fine, but they did their best to make me a virtual clone of themselves.
Even after I turned 21 and left home, they still persisted in trying to run my life. Not even that long ago, my dad told me I need to move into a cheaper place.
Yes, perhaps I live in too expensive a place for what I make, but if I lived where I could well afford, I would fear for my safety. Not that that matters to him, so long as they can control who I am.
Where I live is one of the few bright spots in my life. Every day I drag myself to a job I loathe, feeling that there is no way to the life I should be living, or even a better job, something others take for granted, the ability to attempt to better themselves, is a mystery to me.
As far as your question, I AM attempting to write a graphic novel, but even that gets me depressed. The very act of doing it makes me think of how many authors out there have written half a dozen, a dozen or more books BEFORE they were my age, and not thinking it was any big deal, and how many of them still can't make a living at it, so competitive is the field.
Which makes me feel like, here I am, thinking is this novel ever does see the light of day, it's my one shot to change my life, and that probably won't happen.
And I go to my local mental health care experts for help, and they're no help.
It;s like I'm viewing the world around me as if it were another dimension that I am just taking notes on.
Of course that's not how it really is, hence my frustration and fear and anger.
Imagine, being a sexy, talented, smart, ambitious individual who feels like they're already dead and life is nothing but a dream. Imagine being someone whom the opposite sex flirts with constantly, even to the point of being physically demonstrative, yet who hasn't had a date since their twenties, and those went badly, because who wants to date a middle aged person who doesn't have a driver's license, has a crappy job, and both these things are due to them having a mental illness.
I am amazed you got through college with BPD.
Mine makes me act psycho at times, and detached at others. It has greatly affected my life, to the point where even with medication I can just manage to cope with the basics, and succeeding in life is a pipe dream.