rcd1390 wrote:I have always found that women I date are interested in the test in the book "Please understand Me" as a way of getting closer. When I suggested my HPD take the test, she patently refused, saying tests are BS. I'm curious if others posting here have tried to get them to test, if so, what were the reponses and what were the results? Also, what are your results? Are we all the same type???
I never asked her to take any tests (I was considering a communication skills test but never did it) but I know what her response would be because she echoed it to me on other occasions when I called out on her #######4:
"There is nothing wrong with me! My famiily and friends know it! Why do I need a test to tell me I'm perfect and you're completely wrong."
Getting her to take a test would have been like trying to give a cat a bath. I would have ended up bloody and scarred.
I was contemplating asking her to go to a relationship psychologist due to the insanity that I could not explain that was going on, but had yet to broach the subject before the end came mercifully crashing down on the relationship.
But I can tell you with complete certainty she would have refused. B/c no one could tell her she was wrong, not me, not her parents, not a licensed clincial professional with years of experience! Haha.
Would have been fun though, I see now in retrospect, getting her to one to see her squirm and try to fight through her denial and perverted nature under questioning from a professional probing for problems in her psyche.
But I suspect she would have lied through her teeth because that's her nature - and probably w/out cognitively knowing she was doing it. So it would have been of little value I think.