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Re: Are HPD's sadistic?

Postby oksayhi212 » Sun Jun 10, 2012 9:17 pm

funky wrote: Still gorgeous and engagingly humble, though, obviously!)


Aren't we all..lol
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Re: Are HPD's sadistic?

Postby dingbat69 » Sun Jul 01, 2012 3:17 am

oksayhi212 wrote:
Lodi wrote..Sure, except I'm not talking about "what's really going on."
Thanks for indulging my statement, and boohoo for tracking away from it.



Hey..no problem.

Go back and look at the previous post just before MissAli. mine and Masquerade post.

If you want more detail than that, go through Ghost posts about his bannings.

Educate yourself, before you just seek an aurguement, for the sake of one. IE...Trolling.

OK..

Edit for spelling and grammer.


Actually, Masquerade was doing things behind the scenes to me that amounted to a temper tantrum.. where she was abusing her authority at my expense. It forced me to re-evaluate my opinion of her. ;) The stories you hear about the whole thing aren't the whole story. But.. that shouldn't be a surprise. How often do unrestrained HPD's do that very thing in their lives? HPD's painting others as the bad guy is exactly why so many of us Nons refuse to be shut up by HPD's who can't deal with the bad that other HPD's do... or that they do themselves.

"Why are you here" is a common question among the threads here. For me, it's because I find it's very necessary to be able to help other nons. Being able to talk to other nons who'd been where I was is the only thing that kept me from finding the ex, and putting her 6feet under. (along with myself) Being able to help someone else out of that is very cathartic.
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Re: Are HPD's sadistic?

Postby thisislabor » Sun Jul 01, 2012 3:26 am

funky wrote:There is some truly excellent stuff on psychforums, and this thread is a very good example. Some of the posts on here are very insightful and intelligent. I'm glad that I'm not more intelligent than I am; as a narcissist, the urge to want the wider public to appreciate my wisdom would be unbearable! (And very unwise - I definately would not want to be recognised on here by people who know me! It's the only place that I can be completely honest.)

Actually, that's one very good outcome of me finding this place - a healthy wallop to my narcissistic ego! I'm not half as clever as I thought I was. (Still gorgeous and engagingly humble, though, obviously!)


...you're too funny. I don't even have any family members left any more. hahahaha...

and my life has only been getting better because of it. *sighs* ... :)

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Re: Are HPD's sadistic?

Postby oksayhi212 » Sun Jul 01, 2012 2:27 pm

Dingbat wrote: Actually, Masquerade was doing things behind the scenes to me that amounted to a temper tantrum.. where she was abusing her authority at my expense. It forced me to re-evaluate my opinion of her.


People are banned for a reason, with no one to blame but themselves. Maybe learn from that, instead of blaming otthers?

Dingbat wrote: the only thing that kept me from finding the ex, and putting her 6feet under. (along with myself)


Are you still angry, suicidle and feel like killing your ex? If so, maybe you should go for help and not take out your individual experience on others. I don't believe most non's would "seriously" think of actually murdering thier ex's and than themselves. That in itself, is very extreme behavior and a sign of a very disturbed individual. We all get angry, but that is over the top. Good thing you actually stopped yourself from doing it, but professional help is the only way, you as an individaul, will ever truly get over it. Again, hard to help anyone else, until you help yourself. I suggest you are still a very angry angry person.....

OK.
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Re: Are HPD's sadistic?

Postby masquerade » Sun Jul 01, 2012 4:09 pm

Actually, Masquerade was doing things behind the scenes to me that amounted to a temper tantrum.. where she was abusing her authority at my expense. It forced me to re-evaluate my opinion of her. The stories you hear about the whole thing aren't the whole story. But.. that shouldn't be a surprise. How often do unrestrained HPD's do that very thing in their lives? HPD's painting others as the bad guy is exactly why so many of us Nons refuse to be shut up by HPD's who can't deal with the bad that other HPD's do... or that they do themselves.

"Why are you here" is a common question among the threads here. For me, it's because I find it's very necessary to be able to help other nons. Being able to talk to other nons who'd been where I was is the only thing that kept me from finding the ex, and putting her 6feet under. (along with myself) Being able to help someone else out of that is very cathartic.


Er? Can you actually prove this allegation? I can't remember ever having PM'd you. Perhaps if may have slipped my memory, and you could report the alleged message to the Team by clicking the exclamation mark to the right of the supposed message? If this was so, why didn't you report it at the time? If you're not referring to a message, maybe you would like to be more specific? Maybe you could report your concerns to the Team? Or perhaps you are unable to do that, as you are a previously banned member.

Okay is correct. People are banned for a reason, which is put to the vote by the Team. It is not done indiscriminately. There is always a very good reason, and it is nothing personal. It is done because of the member's anti social conduct on here.
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