Lyingisthemostfunagirlcanhave withouttakingherclothoff?

by **yYyYy** » Fri Jan 27, 2012 2:39 pm

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J-e-j2_QkKM

let's say you cheated on your partner
and your boyfriend's attitude was like THAT LYRIC to find out that you cheated.

Can you LEAVE YOUR BOYFRIEND who is like THAT?

I think I can't.
I may say 'oh baby I am sorry, you are the sexiest!!!'

:lol:

though I really don't cheat..

tell me, how can a man get your mind back when your mind is already on other man?

CRY definitely doesn't work for me. Many guys I dated cried in front of me when I broke up with them but really that didn't make me to empathize them not even a little.
Really, their tears just look like meaningless shallow emotional drama to me :p
I can't give a $#%^...

but even when I CHEATED if he wishes me to be happy, rather than attacking me
it means he REALLY loves me, almost like REAL PARENTS.

oh I am so touched in those cases. when a man does something unexpected. :lol:

You know it will just be me~ lala

Hun, those words might possibly say it all "but even when I CHEATED if he wishes me to be happy, rather than attacking me
it means he REALLY loves me, almost like REAL PARENTS."

Maybe you could think about them, and discuss that with your therapist? It's all to common for a HPD to re-enact childhood patterns through their partners, almost in an attempt to win the love that they felt they might not have had from their parents.

by **yYyYy** » Fri Jan 27, 2012 5:07 pm

masquerade,
REAL PARENTS love their children in almost every kind of situation,
no matter how their children are ... bad, misbehaving, they DON'T abandon them but try to support them to lead them to be happy!
They absolutely don't attack/abandon their child because she fell in love with a guy...!!!!

though I am not saying a man should take the role of the parents

but as a HPD I am subconsciously looking for someone who'd offer nurturance/protection like a mother or father so I guess it's kind of inevitable to expect it.

by **masquerade** » Fri Jan 27, 2012 5:20 pm

Hun, I can so identify with you here and see where you're coming from. My parents were also not so good. Won't go into it now, but if you read through my blogs at any point when you have the chance, especially the blog about emotions and the blog about the parrot, you'll have a bit of an idea of where I'm coming from. It's sad when a person feels that their parents didin't give them the love they deserved.

I know you're not saying a guy should take the place of parents, I'm seeing EXACTLY where you're coming from and that you are saying that sometimes you've been looking to guys to give you the love and nurturance that your parents should have done. Read through my post again and you'll see that I'm seeing where you're coming from. It's a good thing to bring up in therapy, to discuss your feelings about your parents, and the effect it may have had upon your self esteem, and the connection between the past and the patterns of today. Hugs hun.

by **yYyYy** » Sat Jan 28, 2012 2:49 am

aww masquerade thank you!!!!!! <3 x 10000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000

Let's get these teen hearts beating faster faster!!

by **thisislabor** » Sat Jan 28, 2012 3:22 am

masquerade wrote:Hun, I can so identify with you here and see where you're coming from. My parents were also not so good. Won't go into it now, but if you read through my blogs at any point when you have the chance, especially the blog about emotions and the blog about the parrot, you'll have a bit of an idea of where I'm coming from. It's sad when a person feels that their parents didin't give them the love they deserved.

I know you're not saying a guy should take the place of parents, I'm seeing EXACTLY where you're coming from and that you are saying that sometimes you've been looking to guys to give you the love and nurturance that your parents should have done. Read through my post again and you'll see that I'm seeing where you're coming from. It's a good thing to bring up in therapy, to discuss your feelings about your parents, and the effect it may have had upon your self esteem, and the connection between the past and the patterns of today. Hugs hun.

wait i'm confused.

are you saying there is something wrong in her expecting "agape love"? because it is what you are sounding like your saying. just being a 3rd party interrupting your girl's conversation. (i am assuming you are both female...)

- Labor.

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