I thought this was supposed to be a support forum?

by **Blue Phoenix** » Sat Dec 24, 2005 6:14 pm

To the best of my knowledge, this is the only forum alive that deals with HPDs.

Kontroller is right, this forum was dead. Actually this was the first forum I found regarding HPDs. However, due to its inactivity I went to another one which apparently had nothing to do with personality disorders. Unfortunately some people there are very sceptical when it comes to Pdisorers and I don't believe they take it seriously. The post regarding this subject is doomed to fade away there.

Some people should be happy that this site rose from the dead.

References:
1. http://www.encyclopediadramatica.com/in ... tion_Whore

2. http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi/26_dating_girl.html

3. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread ... adid=55343

4. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread ... adid=72531

Actually that forum has been going downhill. Good luck to everyone and happy Xmas.

Yes. With mine it was more a case of when he messed up, he realized that he messed up and he could see the pattern from prior mess-ups and then had a brief time when he said he wanted to change and thought he could change ... but then when things go back to the normal schedule/envionrment and some time has elapsed from the latest messing up, it's back to square one again.

I got an email from mine this morning. I know he sent it to me because tomorrow is xmas and he is probably thinking of me and trying to see if he can still garner attention from me. It's sad and annoying, but not unexpected. I'm not going to play along, needless to say.

by **jamostrat** » Wed Dec 28, 2005 3:51 pm

I agree with you. A long time ago i went on the forum for comulsive lying to start to get help about a problem i had caused and i had taken my first steps to put it right. All i got was partners of compulsive liars bithching and then they started bitching at me like i was the one who had caused them there problems.
I gave up in the end.
If you are still here and you still want someone to read your postings with an un-biased point of view, i and i know others will.
There are a few of us who are not judgemental and would welcome you on any of the forums.

I know how hard this can be for you.

Regards Jamo

by **rcd1390** » Wed Dec 28, 2005 4:04 pm

I wish I knew how to help you, I came to this site looking for insight on the problem and it seems to me that, a)you are at leasst willing to seek help and B) that puts you head and shoulders above most HPD's. I wish you success!

by **starz** » Wed Dec 28, 2005 5:36 pm

The HPD I was involved with would go through those at times and seemed like a normal human being while she was.

During one of those moments she told off some guy for being a jerk using logic which for the most part she and HPD's in general have no use for.

Sadly though these moments just help them in their manipulation of people.

A person witnessing an HPD act normal like this for a time might think to themselves all of the HPD's other bad behaviour must of just been due to stress.

Maybe nothing serious is wrong with them after all.

We know now though that this is not the truth.

Well now you know why HPD's feel they cant post on this board.
This is a very judgemental, one sided.
To say that a person isnt a normal human being?? Jesus give me strength.....

by **KontrollerX** » Wed Dec 28, 2005 6:07 pm

"Well now you know why HPD's feel they cant post on this board.
This is a very judgemental, one sided.
To say that a person isnt a normal human being?? Jesus give me strength....."

Judgemental about my HPD for certain.

A normal human being doesn't lie even when their lies are exposed as lies.

She does.

A normal human being doesn't call someone a rapist and serial killer for no reason at all.

She does.

A normal human being doesn't throw themselves all over any decent looking guy that comes her way and perform sex acts on that guy almost right away.

She does.

It is harsh of me to say she does not act like a normal human being but harsh or not it is also the truth unsugarcoated.

by **novaseeker** » Wed Dec 28, 2005 6:32 pm

starz wrote:Well now you know why HPD's feel they cant post on this board.
This is a very judgemental, one sided.
To say that a person isnt a normal human being?? Jesus give me strength.....

Of course it isn't normal, Starz, they have a disorder. Their brains don't think normally, and so their behaviors are not normal ... they are, instead, disordered.

Again, for an HPD to recognize that they have this and to seek therapy for it ... I support that 100%, and I think you will find people here supportive when such an HPD comes here. What I pesonally don't support is HPDs who know they have this, refuse to get treatment or stay in treatment for it, and continue their predatory behaviors on others. It's one thing to have a disorder and recognize that and seek treatment for it ... it's quite another to know you have this disorder and choose to avoid treatment for it.

by **rcd1390** » Wed Dec 28, 2005 11:10 pm

amen....at least this person cares....maybe for the minutr, maybe longer!

by **Guest** » Thu Dec 29, 2005 1:43 am

A normal human being doesn't lie even when their lies are exposed as lies.

A normal human being doesn't call someone a rapist and serial killer for no reason at all.

A normal human being doesn't throw themselves all over any decent looking guy that comes her way and perform sex acts on that guy almost right away.

How are these people are allowed to *live*. I mean ffs I'm schizophrenic and if I do anything out of order I can be locked up in an institution, my medication is *forced* upon me, yet at heart I never do anyhting wrong.
They should just hang spend time with each other and stop destroying normal :wink:

people with stuff that normal people nare never going to understand or think justified.

I thought this was supposed to be a support forum?

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