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by a-fool » Sun May 22, 2011 8:34 pm
LightZero wrote:a-fool wrote:I got a text from her asking when are we going to talk...I'm tempted to talk to her
Do not respond. She might overreact and throw a tantrum but she only doing that to get attention. I suggest you read all the threads especially the older ones to help you cope. You have to remember she doesn't care about you or your friendship. You are nothing more than just a source of supply. Don't let yourself continue to be her doormat.
I failed...I answered "why, so you can show me again that you don't care about me and our friendship"
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by a-fool » Sun May 22, 2011 11:00 pm
that's for help, it's over now, I'm HPD free
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by Cpt » Tue Sep 20, 2011 1:06 am
a-fool wrote:
Finally, during a FB conversation she says she's pregnant and I see her friends congratulating her, so I ask her about that and she tells me the whole story about it, who's the father, how far along she is, that she's getting married, that she told her parants...everything...but I was suspicious
for about 2 months she was persistant with the story and angry with me when I said I don't believe her, I found out from her friend that she's not really pregnant...she tried to defend herself saying she thought she was pregnant, she got her period, but that's just another lie, she never believed she was pregnant and was lying to me for no reason right after we became friends again.
The reason is because her being pregnant could have meant that she was going to get hitched to another guy and she knew it would hurt you to feel rejected like that.
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by shock » Tue Sep 20, 2011 7:59 am
a-fool
Listen my friend. Your experience is very, very similar to mine. It sucks.
But you've got to be strong and not give in. Just leave it alone to die. Do not contact her. I know it's not easy but it's going to be your mental problem and not hers if you give in. Don't do that to yourself.
I'm in week 3 of NC and have already had a text message from her which I ignored. I've also had provocation on FB, deliberate things designed to get a reaction. But no, I'm not going to react. Trust me, I felt like sending her a really, really nasty message last night but chose not to. That would have given her a moral win, and I'll be fcuked if I'm giving her that satisfaction.
I have my pride and dignity. You've got to find yours too.
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