facebook histrionic test...

i was bored on facebook and i saw this...

If you love me, ( comment on this status )
If you think I'm a good friend, ( like this status )
If you hate me, ( message me and tell me why )
If you ever had a crush on me, be honest, ( poke me )
If you're not scared, ( make this your status )

so i decided to copy it and post it as my status, well it has only been 15 minutes since i posted it and im already contemplating deleting people and im already mad at some people for not liking my status or commenting, one of my "best friends" even copied this as her status 2 minutes after i posted it and the bitch didnt like my status or nothing...im so pissed right now

Wendy,

I rarely post on your threads because I simply can't identify with you- you and I are comeplete polar oposits in this disorder and as such I never have anything to say/add of any help to you; but this post (I'm sorry to say it) is comepletely pointless.

Where in here:

Wendy1092 wrote:i was bored on facebook and i saw this...

If you love me, ( comment on this status )
If you think I'm a good friend, ( like this status )
If you hate me, ( message me and tell me why )
If you ever had a crush on me, be honest, ( poke me )
If you're not scared, ( make this your status )

so i decided to copy it and post it as my status, well it has only been 15 minutes since i posted it and im already contemplating deleting people and im already mad at some people for not liking my status or commenting, one of my "best friends" even copied this as her status 2 minutes after i posted it and the bitch didnt like my status or nothing...im so pissed right now

is the lesson your sharing or trying to learn with/from the board?
Are you asking for help understanding this, or telling us all this in the hopes it will some way enrich our lives or yours?

I hate throwing out the 'seeking attention' card because I hate when people throw it on me; so I won't do that to you. I will however ask you what the point of this post is and see if you know it (not anyone else) why did you write this here Wendy? What are you looking to learn from it?

Have you learned from it? Or should this just be chalked up to purging?
If it is a purge, what have you gained from this word vomit?
(I vomit on the boards too, but I try to learn from it, hence why I'm curious what you've learned here)

I hope this doesn't come off as overly rude, but some of your posts just perplex me greatly and I wonder if you are infact getting anything from here by way of understanding or help/support of some kind???

Sorry, I guess I just don't understand...

Wendy1092 wrote:one of my "best friends" even copied this as her status 2 minutes after i posted it and the bitch didnt like my status or nothing...im so pissed right now

BWAhahahahahaaa!!!! omgosh this is soooo funny! lols... poor wendy, in retrospect hunny you will see how truly hilarious this $#%^ is. I completely understand and empathize with you sweety. don't delete your friends you will miss them later - I know from experience.

-Thisislabor.

thisislabor wrote:

Wendy1092 wrote:one of my "best friends" even copied this as her status 2 minutes after i posted it and the bitch didnt like my status or nothing...im so pissed right now

BWAhahahahahaaa!!!! omgosh this is soooo funny! lols... poor wendy, in retrospect hunny you will see how truly hilarious this $#%^ is. I completely understand and empathize with you sweety. don't delete your friends you will miss them later - I know from experience.

-Thisislabor.

Really? You've done/experienced this kinda thing before too?

How can something like a facebook stauts, like/dislike/or nothing at all posted, p*ss you off?
Sorry, maybe I'm wierd or something, but I just don't get this

Wendy,

You are not POINTLESS in your post because this is where you are at in your disorder that things are bothering you that seem so small compared to others.

I have seen some on here TAKE OVER THE BOARDs and post pillow fights and silly what nots and basically spat in the faces of nons without caring how this will make the nons feel. And those posts had NOTHING to do with reparing ones self to recover from HPD including nasty talking about sexual conquests.

Don't let anyone discount your feelings.

Now that being said, I HOPE that you eventually come to realize to not worry so much about what others think of YOU. It is the DISORDER talking. You have to learn to be okay with YOU and learn to love YOU before you can get to this point. Read Jean(goodbyenormajean)'s post about how she has come a long way and now she knows life isn't going to all be rainbows and lollipops but guess what?? SHE IS OKAY WITH THAT. She is okay with HERSELF and learning to love and forgive herself for past behavior.

You are so young Wendy and you will find that there are much more heart wrenching things in this life that you COULD be going through, and eventuall you will see that this you are going through now is not so bad compared to what others are enduring.

You will get there though. Just keep learning, and reading and searching and if you can endulge into therapy that might be the best place for you. They have tactics and suggestions and excercises that you can do to practice not focusing so much on the outside, but healing you on the inside.

Don't worry, we are here for you Wendy. Just keep trying.
Scarlett

Oh for God sakes!

What you said:

You are not POINTLESS in your post because this is where you are at in your disorder that things are bothering you that seem so small compared to others.

What I said:

but this post (I'm sorry to say it) is comepletely pointless.

Were the hell did I say she was pointless?

What I said was the post was pointless (in my opinion)- not her, but your rewording of my statement makes the emphasis seem as if it was directed on to her and I didn't do that. Be very careful how you word/phrase things, because by your reorginaziation of words you get a whole new context and meaning to them in new their placement.

I have seen some on here TAKE OVER THE BOARDs and post pillow fights and silly what nots and basically spat in the faces of nons without caring how this will make the nons feel. And those posts had NOTHING to do with reparing ones self to recover from HPD including nasty talking about sexual conquests.

Number
1- I never TOOK OVER THE BOARDS with that pillow fight, Sans threw the first pillow image on a thread and I played back, when it was suggested we take it off the thread we did that out of repect for the other person's thread with no complaint or hesitation- so how is 2 threads 'taking over the boards' exactly???
2- spat in the face of NON's without caring about how it would make them feel? Are you still talking about the pillowfight here or something else? If you're referring to the pillow fight I say PFT to that nonsence and get a grip. If you mean my other outbursts on these boards, I was many time prevoked by others and if it wasn't a direct provocation on me, it was something I felt offence to in their wording/context/expression and I reacted accordingly. I'm REactive, not a pick a fight for nothing kinda girl and I think reading my previoust 900 posts up to this point proves this very accurately. Again, PFT to that whole scenario.
3. Nasty talk about my sexual conquests... hunny, you have no idea anything and everything I ever said on THESE BOARDS was light and 'R' rated/sensored to be examined and understood, so again get a grip.

Honest to God, your issue with me go beyond this post and you know it. every step of the way you've been right there compairing us to each other, proving that 'you can get just as many men as I can, can be just as seductive and just as this and that, or even more so. I find your insecurity in yourself, projected as an outward comparison of us to be annyoning and unnecessary, and I'd like it to stop.

I never once said I was better than you or anyone else, yet you seemed to think it necessary to prove yourself in comparison to me on these boards many times- that's your problem, not mine. NOW BACK OFF!

I've always tried to be nice to and understanding of your issues, but now that you're AGAIN pulling me apart in the middle of the forum and making me look an *sshole when I was trying to QUESTION her POST (the same you've done to me many times and it always helped me see things, even if not right away) and after the way you reacted to my behaviour on the AsPD forum and jumped all me for that sh*t- I've honestly had more than I can handle from you and I'd like you to leave me alone from now on.

There's much I think of YOU too, but I don't say it publically or even in private because I know it would hurt you to hear it. That's where we differ. I don't try to intentionally hurt people for no reason.

I said this post was pointless and explained why I thought that.

There was no question presented to be answered. There was no asking for thoughts or inditification with the occurances. There was nothing more than "I was bord and I did this, and then this p*ssed me off" There was no rallying for support or understanding, her post was a STATEMENT, nothing more. In a forum developed to be interactive between posters, ther was no interactive aspect to this post- ero it was a pointless post with no method or concept to it. I said that very thing right here:

is the lesson your sharing or trying to learn with/from the board?
Are you asking for help understanding this, or telling us all this in the hopes it will some way enrich our lives or yours?
why did you write this here Wendy? What are you looking to learn from it?
Have you learned from it? Or should this just be chalked up to purging?
If it is a purge, what have you gained from this word vomit?

by posing it as questions. I beleive you asked me simmilar questions a few times too if you look back and think about it...

We learn here by interacting with each other- right?
My question was what was she trying to learn from making this post- there was no method mentioned here, so it was a valid question.

I didn't jump in here and say "little girl you need to grow up and get a grip- there are peole here with more sero=ious problems and you're taking up space on the boards" I'd never say that kind of thing to someone.

You and I will never see each other clearly and I think it best we stay away from each other because the friction seems to be a bit much sometimes- don't you agree?

I'm done, I have nothing more to say here. Wendy I said I didn't mean for this hut you and if it did I AM SORRY- that was NOT my intent.

Peace out all

Alice,

I don't know it is a common curtousey thing... much like cellphone text messages where someone is immediately responding to me and then all of a sudden stops because they didn't like the way I said something or I didn't respond exactly like they wanted. that pisses me off too...

- also, Alice, don't flame me for this but: she did not say you said she was pointless. she said she is not pointless in her post. (unless of course I'm wrong, in which case let me get out of the way and continue watching the galestorm of angry estrogen that is about to ensue a flame war )

- Thisislabor.

"Devaluing?"

AliceWonders wrote:

thisislabor wrote:

Wendy1092 wrote:one of my "best friends" even copied this as her status 2 minutes after i posted it and the bitch didnt like my status or nothing...im so pissed right now

BWAhahahahahaaa!!!! omgosh this is soooo funny! lols... poor wendy, in retrospect hunny you will see how truly hilarious this $#%^ is. I completely understand and empathize with you sweety. don't delete your friends you will miss them later - I know from experience.

-Thisislabor.

Really? You've done/experienced this kinda thing before too?

How can something like a facebook stauts, like/dislike/or nothing at all posted, p*ss you off?
Sorry, maybe I'm wierd or something, but I just don't get this

*shrugs* Attention? Abandonment? No one loves me because they don't post on my status. Jealousy? Mary got 18 comments, where's mine?

I'm just as guilty for being sucked into the FB status sadness in the past. It feels good when you post and people care.. of course the opposite would be true when you post and no one cares.

Hey Ali... Wooossaaaaa.. Don't make me throw you back into the pillow ring. Mauh.

Thanks Sans,

So it's a neglecting thing? She feels neglected that no one made a comment on her updated status- right?
I can get that, I know what it's like to feel neglected, lots!

I'm not a face booker, so I don't use it and I don't care what people post on their profiles or mine. I have not much interest in that, I know alot of people do- but I never got into it...

I do identify with the feeling of neglect though, and I have been jealous before too (that's not a common one for me, I tend to be more self absorbed than care what others have/don't have & as long as my needs are met, I'm alright) but yeah. I can get the emo she went through with this to some extent...

As to the pillow fighting... I don't think the mommy types are too pleased with us about that someone might smack our bums if we act up again

You're such a bad influence on me Sans
Get you corner you naughty girl