What lies did your HPD tell others after break-up?

My ex-HPD (ex since just 3 days and this is our 3rd breakup in 3 years and hopefully this will be final) lied to me several times but i suck it up due to no hard evidences and call it up to my own insecurities.

4 days back she came to me all sweety and talked to me about all the good things and how she miss me all the time and want to spend good time with me but couldnt get the chances to see me often.

She told me that its me who is not making much affort to see her (lie....as she always disapear or have some stupid excuses whenever i want to ask her to meet) and i could come anytime to her workplace since she is alone at office since few days and had nothing to do exept to think of me and miss me.

She knew that once she meet me, it takes at least a week or 10 days that we contact each other again. To surprise her i went to her place the next day. I texted her just from the corridor of her office that i want to meet, can i come? thinking that the moment she will say "yes" i will ring the bell of her glass door main entrance. Surprised that within half a second she send reply 'NO' followed by a call that :she is not in her office and she will call me once i am back and i can hear her saying this from inside her office.

I said ok and hanged but still decided to walk to her office. I look above the glass windonw a man siitng in front of her and she is laughing with him like anything. Decided not to create a drama , i tured back but while turning back to leave, tha last thing i saw is she is extending her hand to him and he bent and hold it.

i went to my place and waitid for her call. She called 2 hours later calling me in a very cool and relaxed voice. Hi darling ! so sorry that you wanted to come and i was not in my office. I didnot went back to office otherwise i could have asked you to come back cause i so missed you We will keep it for the next time..

I couldnot able to hold myself and told her what i saw.

You know what she said. I am a cheap stalker and not worth to have relation with. and hanged.

Whever we broke before, She always bad mouthed about me to her friends that i am hot tempered and too old fashioned and possesive. which i am certainly not.

Triptohell:

Absolutely classic! They HATE to be dropped in on. A lot of times my HPD would call plaintively to ask if I was coming to see her. In retrospect I realize she was making sure the coast would be clear for her to have another guy over.

One morning, after weeks of her claiming to be dying of heartbreak and loneliness, no one else in her life, nope, etc, etc, I went to her place to console her with a just-friends-breakfast. (This was before I realized the necessity of NC.)
No answer to the doorbell. I call her. She claims perkily to be out jogging. (She is not out of breath, and I hear no traffic.) She could theoretically taxi back to her flat within 5 minutes, jog back within 15. Instead she tells me to go and wait at a coffee shop that is not even on her walking/jogging route back.
Like an idiot I go and wait. Hey, it was early, my mind wasn't working right.

Only after my first sip of coffee did the penny drop. I realized she had a guy in her place and didn't want me to know. If only I had just waited in front of her door!
Sure enough, when she turns up at the coffee shop 40 minutes later (having allegedly been only 1 km away when she got my call!), she is in normal workclothes with a just-got-out-of-bed look -- neither sweaty from a mid-summer jog nor freshly showered. And when I smilingly ask her to fess up -- I wasn't even jealous -- she immediately starts sobbing about how insane I am.

These people lie all the time. ALL THE TIME. Why? Because all the time they have a reason to lie. Only when the non realizes this does he attain true wisdom.
Good for you, Triptohell, for smelling a rat at once.

My HPD has taken a lot of financial and Materialistic advantage of me against some bread crumbs she throwed at me. She can turn from a sexy whore who will sit and rub her P**** on me to a religious scholar who think sex is an evil, in a minute.

I want to rant a complete story of my stupid relationship with her some day and i hope it will help so many Non's.

They live on their lies. Breath on their lies.