Anyone happy in relationship with HPD?

I can't speak for everyone else on this forum, which you seem to be fond of doing.

Yeah, I see how it's good for every relationship, but it becomes a lot more important when the relationship started as nothing but games.

No not speaking for them. Just expressing my observation. They speak for themselves.

Alot of good people on this forum. Great guys, that have been terribly hurt. Someday they will be so much better off and look back at all this as a positive experience to become better and stronger for someone else. Hard to see that, when your in the thick of it!

I had trouble understanding why people wanted stay in these unhealthy relationships and could not understand why they wanted to get back with them. An ex is an an ex for a reason. For me anyway. However, I am starting to understand it better now, as I was not in that deep. The married guys with kids and guys with kids with thier ex's, I do understand the need to try and keep it together. However, sooner or later they need to make a choice, after they tried thier best. I see now, alot of guys have done that. Really tough. AAAGH!

As far as a relationship starting with games, a TK guy would catch on pretty quick. Not sure a guy like that would stay in such a relationship, early on, once the game is exposed.

Hey, you avoid all my questions! lol

So you in love with a guy or not. If so, are you molding him or does he need to be? Are you trying to change for him, if so, how?

Last time I ask, so stop skipping past them! Deflection right? Throw it back on me and learn more about them, than you! lol Go figure!

hahaha.. a curious one, aren't you? You remind me of myself. Are you sure you're a 'normal'? last time you ask? oooh~ is that a challenge I sense?

How did this become an investigation on me?! I'm here to talk about you and make you feel all special. Seriously though, I'm not getting into this. I'm not here for that. If you absolutely must know, pm me.

The whole point is he catches on! He already knows what he's dealing with. I'm not saying I want to fool some guy into thinking I'm 'normal'. If I care about him at all, I'll be upfront about it. I want him to care enough to fight me to get to me.

Ok, send me your PM, I am curious and yes I would like to hear your story. It is how we learn. I will give you an honest reply.

But don't talk dirty to me ok? It's been awhile and I might fall in love with you. Or worse you might fall in love with me!

Sofrance already asked me to marry her, then dumped me the next day! lol So HPD, don't you think? I really could not stand anymore such hurt! lol

Did you just admit to dirty talking with another member here? She dumped you. Clearly you weren't good enough. And you think I'd take her leftover? Don't flatter yourself, mister. But wow, the nerve! haha.. I'd say you have a much higher chance of falling for me though, not the other way around. Unless you're skilled with your words...

But seriously, send me your question if you're still curious, I'll try to answer, evading as much as possible. And sorry, but no dirty talking will be involved. I thought I already told you I'm on an indefinite break from all games.

Hey..you never told me you were over your games.

Ok..I will PM you with all the same questions. I assume we are having a control issue over this. Ok, that's typical. You already know my questions! lol

I will copy and paste them to you on a PM message. But will you answer honestly. Let's see.

PS: I can seduce any woman , as much as you can seduce any man. Just when I do, I mean it. ! lol

I'm not done. On break. Recharging.

You're challenging me. Makes me want to be difficult and do the opposite..

I'm sure you can seduce any woman, except I'm not just any. Can you honestly say you always mean it? I love how 'normals' act like they never play games. I don't buy that.

Ok..take a break. I sent you a PM. When your ready to answer go ahead. Ok? Really no hurry. If you don't feel comfortable being honest with me, then don't reply. Waste of time.

Yes, I am playing with you, as much as you are playing with me. But with humor only. However, my questions are serious. So take your time Yummy..no hurry. Rainy day here and I am on vacation. Yahoooo..no quilt! But doing laundry and house hold chores sucks! LOL

So don't stress for pete's sake. We don't know each other and believe we probably live in different parts of the world...so loosen up and get it out when your ready! OK?

Ugh! First, quit calling me yummy! I'm not adding words however I like to your name, am I?

I'm not comfortable being honest with you. You're too forceful.

Of course, this is just playing. I meant the question in a general sense though.

You're telling me not to stress? and for pete's sake? haha.. We're clearly in different parts of the world. You do laundry and chores?! Now I think I can reconsider you being someone else's leftover and maybe even look over all your character flaws...

So ok..what does Yumi mean?

Sorry, the maid is is on vacation too! lol I am not about to share my net worth with you! lol Are you a golddigger?

Really what were you thinking? Was is that me doing laundry and chores would make any diffference to you. Were you fantisizing I was some rich guy that was going to rescue you? Your knight in shining amore. What difference should my status make to you, unless you were interested? Were you trying to lurer me in as a potential?

I am not the one claiming to have a disorder, you are. Right? So lets throw it back on him again! Typical. I have been devalued....wow you really hurt my feelings.

I am here to learn about the disorder, and who better to learn from , than someone that cliams they are. I can talk to guys that lost there true love ,on a maybe, until I am blue in the face. I can sit here and cry on each others shoulders. However, someone with the actual disorder is where I have learned the most. Maybe you can learn from me too. That's up to you, once you are honest an take off the HPD crap.

Anyway, if your not interested or will not be honest, we are wasting each others time. If you want to answer, by post or PM, it is up to you. I will respond in honesty and answer any of your questions. If you won't open up and just deflect it, that's your decision as well. go on as you are.

My opinion, your having trouble in your current relationship and refuse to face it. Your afraid he will abandon you.

Again up to you. However I do think you are afraid of me for some reason? Why? Is it because you can't foul me?

I leave the door open to you to chat when you become non evasive and honest. If not, all the best to you...OK