Ex "N" "H" run in of the year... love hear the H's Opinions

As they say... it is one thing to call the devil and quite another to see him come.

Lunchtime.... decided to go to this particular hole in the wall restaurant... BBQ chicken place of sorts.

As I'm walking in there she was. My ex N and the guy from abroad she's been trading me with for the entire last year and a half. Naturally, I did what most people would not dare do... I went pass their table, and in my way into the bathroom. I came out after 2 minutes and approach their table. I wish you would have seen the look in their faces.... priceless. He was so ill dressed and I as customary was well dressed.

I'm a polite person, and so I said hello to her, and was going to give her a kiss in the cheek. She kinda was not sure what to do...(almost like a moment of hesitation on her part) but decided to sort of move away from me.. so I asked her in a very firm and self assured tone "aren't you going to greet me? and she said "No E I'm not going to say hello" "wow" I said "you really not going to say hello"? she seemed somewhat angry, yet in shock... would not even looked me in the eye... almost ashamed..."very well then" I said...(in the mean time not a pip out the other guys mouth... to be expected... after all he was the idiot of my class) BTW you don't know how much I've been wanting to confront this idiot. But I took the high road.... for shits and giggles!!!

They both wreaked of low self esteem and contempt... almost like two pigs in their own $#%^!!! So very courteously and not even looking at her, I shook the guys hand while I wish them to have a great lunch!!!. I think he happen to say Thank you. Mind you this guy, fat as as house, ugly, and horribly dress almost shrunk in my eyes even though he's much taller and of course heavier... after that it was a total about face and without looking back. I left the place.

In the end it felt so great!!! after 2 and half months of NC I just look at her for what she is. pathological. and I must admit, they were probably not expecting that reaction out of me. Funny enough I felt calm self assured and never even wavered for a second"

vindicated... don't give a $#%^ about you devaluing me type attitude... cordial and polite! I'd love to hear what you guys think?

ES
But what a strange look in her eyes!!! almost confused!!! a bit pathetic if you asked me, and yes... I managed to stare in the abyss and walk out with my head held up high!

Well,....sounds as if you had a good time with this encounter. As we all know, BBQ can be delicious. It often looks delicious as well (perhaps like so many hpd's)... But I would have walked up to the guy and said, "That BBQ looks great, how is it really? Looks can be decieving you know, that' s why I ask"....Perhaps they would not have caught on. But the subtlety in it all would have been worth it.........(BBQ equating to hpd of course)