Do you think this person may have HPD?

I was at a restaurant the other day. This woman, came out and made a huge presentation of giving cupons to my mom. Now my dad, was joking around about it. It seemed she was acting over sensitive, particularly when she turned to my mom and said "Why is he being so mean to me?" about my dad. More like she was whining, I also have heard from when my mom called the restaurant that other people have had issues with her.

This isn't about her getting fired, but more that the manager is claiming she's retarded, when I think she has a personality disorder of some type. I find it frustrating as someone with Asperger's Syndrome, that people on the Autism spectrum may be being attributed to people who actually have personality disorder, and this is where people are getting the idea that people who have Asperger's Syndrome don't display empathy well. That and I was rather upset about the whole thing, just the drama. I thought I may have upset her, I think that the customers have a right to know if they're dealing with a person who may be unstable.

So I hope I'm not offending anyone here with HPD by asking about this, I just would like to know what I should do if I encounter this person again. I'm rather fearful they may be holding a grudge against me, the restaurant in question is Sweet Tomatoes, and it's the only one near me. So going to another restaurant, well I'd perfer if I didn't have to do that.

Far too little information. How the hell do you expect someone to diagnose her as HPD from your post alone?

Your post is quite obviously a p*ss take. Ha ha ha ha ha (irony).

I'm sorry I guess I thought I would get help here. Seems instead it's just people looking to laugh at other people's misery.

Oh please...... whoever posted that is laughing at everyone on this forum.

So can I expect someone to seriously respond to my post, or just more nonsense?

Ok, I will post seriously back.

You went to a restaurant and you didn't like the waitress. Answer - either go back to the restaurant and put up with it or don't go back to the restaurant.

It is perfectly normal to go to a restaurant and not like the waitress. So maybe she is retarded or maybe she has a personality disorder. Who gives a f*ck!!!!!?? She brings your food to your table!!! Why are you so concerned about her life outside the restaurant??????

What do you actually want????

Forget it, clearly I'm going to have to take this to the Asperger's Syndrome section. Seems all anyone wants to do is either laugh or yell at me here.

I actually agree with sofrance here... *cringes*

Seriously who cares whether or not a waitress at a restaurant you go to has HPD or not. It doesn't matter at all. If you really want to know for whatever personal reasons (I don't judge) then you have to give A LOT more information about her, and you apparently don't know this girl all too well so I don't think that's going to happen.

Woo hoo Asphyx!

Shall I get you a fan club badge???