Another case of HPD?

by **Butchannon** » Wed May 19, 2010 1:48 pm

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I think that you're in a good position right now to say that 'enough is enough' with regard to her behaviour. I can understand why you did'nt stand up to her in the beginning of the relationship and up to the point where you told her to move out. However, now you are in the best position for a long time to say to her that you're not going to accept her behaviour anymore. If you 'reconcile' and get back together, I guarantee you that not much will have changed. She knows that she can do what she wants and that you'll still take her back. You have to make a firm stance right now and not let her get away with this anymore. You should always have rights to see your child, but I don't think that your future is with her (your ex partner).

Kevin

by **nomoredreams_reality** » Fri May 21, 2010 6:38 pm

Well, don't forgive her...I am of the opposite side, I have an affair with HPD-guy for about 7 months...We were talking through MSN in a sexual seductive way...and we were having sex several times...but for me was all my life, everyday we were talking 5 hours at least...He tolf me that he was not ready for a new relationship and that he was hurt by his ex-girlfriend...and after all I discovered that he mad a relationship about 3 months before me and he had one-year relationship...I was really hurtbroken...I loved him, I believed that he was a good guy...He told me all the time that I was the only one...and that I was the only one who made him feel so sexually...Believe these gyus who were talking with her through MSN, they are not just for fun...I was in their shoes and when I realised that he had a relationship I felt destroying...

by **Butchannon** » Tue May 25, 2010 7:36 pm

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by **Chucky** » Tue May 25, 2010 7:47 pm

What has changed since you first posted? If you're only going to stay with your partner for your daughter's sake, then that would be the wrong move. However, i'm sure that many have done this before. Still, I think that your daughter could arguably have a worse upbringing if she sees that her parents are living together but dont get along. There is no immediate good in your situation, and therefore think about what the long term 'good' can be; and then make your decision again.

Kevin

by **Butchannon** » Tue May 25, 2010 7:59 pm

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by **Chucky** » Tue May 25, 2010 8:39 pm

If you stay with her and don't break free, what will the rest of your life bw like...?

by **Butchannon** » Tue May 25, 2010 9:26 pm

I'm not sure if she has HPD or not. Because if she has it, I think that things won't get better and it will be very hard..

by **Chucky** » Tue May 25, 2010 10:07 pm

That's a mistake... ...you should never dictate your future by what mental condition you or another person close to you has. I'm not trying to imply that things will get better if you stay, but what i am saying is that labrlling people around you with a mental disorder is a sure way to never see them as they really are.

by **Butchannon** » Tue May 25, 2010 10:28 pm

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