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by ghost5of7 » Fri Oct 02, 2009 12:02 am
I'm reiterating the warning here but also adding to the warning another poster made about post breakup stalking via myspace. It HAPPENS and its not as trivial as many seem to think. My ex nightmare ended up on the lists of many of my friends and family but hid who she was while befriending them. If you have an hpd ex you KNOW how charming and seductive they are.
The result in my case? The hateful nightmare was BACK in my life, but now my friends and family were unwilling to quite believe what I was going through.
A 25 year friend who hadf been like a sister... "I'm sorry she hurt you, but I like her. We talk all the time so I'm not gonna not be friends with her just cause of what she did"
And various other tactics. Don't be naiive! These people are sick, and cunning, and schemers. Impartial geniuses get scammed all the time!! How easy would an average biased person be to dupe?
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by Chucky » Mon Oct 05, 2009 11:11 pm
It's good to bring awareness to this - Thanks. I know that I am well-equipped at this stage to deal with such 'stalking' on things such as FAcebook, but I also a aware that other people are susceptible to such bullying and don't know how to handle it. They get sucked into it and don't know how to get out. Anyway, if anyone here IS currently being stalked/bullied on any Internet meeting website such as FAcebook, then please post here about it. There are ways out of this nonsense.
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by sfguy » Tue Oct 06, 2009 1:14 am
ghost5of7 wrote: A 25 year friend who hadf been like a sister... "I'm sorry she hurt you, but I like her. We talk all the time so I'm not gonna not be friends with her just cause of what she did"
You can't control who other people talk to. Just tell your friend not to talk about her with you.
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by ghost5of7 » Wed Oct 07, 2009 2:06 am
sfguy75x wrote:ghost5of7 wrote: A 25 year friend who hadf been like a sister... "I'm sorry she hurt you, but I like her. We talk all the time so I'm not gonna not be friends with her just cause of what she did"
You can't control who other people talk to. Just tell your friend not to talk about her with you.
Eh ordinarily ya be right. In hindsight the omitted details mighta kept the point more clear... In this case, the friend/sister Had previously aided in some (childish I know) disinformation. "Taste of her own medicine" tactics via the computer. Call it a convenient and complete reversal of attitude for a self interest..... Digressing *chuckling*
Just watch out for em and let your friends know to be careful, and beware of dummy id's who try to become friendly.
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